You need to discuss this with your instructor. You both need to be on the same page as to what you are learning, what you are being taught, and why. The initial instruction has helped your overall game, but you, and/or your instructor have progressed into a grey area so to speak with regards to you instruction. What you are describing is a common problem between students, and golf instructors. Have a sit down and explain your thoughts to the instructor. You have paid for a service you need to be satisfied with.