[Donadoni1809]

Hello, I am new to this forum. I love my wife dearly and I know that she loves me. I have suspected an affair for some time mainly due to 'evidence', not through any actions or lack of actions by my wife. So am I nuts or what? Why do those panties have those stains once or twice a week? She wouldn't. She couldn't. It's totally against her nature. I have prayed long and hard about this. My suspicions were causing me to become seriously depressed. I got the sperm detection kit and it came up empty. It was one of the hardest things I ever had to do. We talk openly and honestly about our relationship and about sex. I asked her about my suspicions once and got the reassurances I needed. I swore I would never cause her the pain of a false accusation again. I thought maybe masturbation could account for it but no, that is not the case. Please, some guidance would be greatly appreciated.

[Rchzygnc]

Are you serious? Do you not get the a woman's body has discharges for differing reasons ranging from a slight infection to a PH imbalance. Come on if that is only thing you are basing your assumptions on...find another reason.

[fmrcurter]

Question is, do you have a reason to believe she is cheating.

In other words:

Has her behavior changed?

Has she started really dolling herself up all of a sudden?

Does she go out and party or out for drinks or clubbing with "the girls"?

Are there times where she says she is going to be somewhere and you are skeptical?


Or is she home all the time and really doesn't have the time to cheat?

[Donadoni1809]

Thanks, except for the 2 1/2 trip to Kmart or the almost 2 hour trip to get the groceries, I have absolutely no reason to suspect.

[fmrcurter]

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[Donadoni1809]

It looks like what you would expect after intercourse. On days when she hasn't been out for a long time to do a short errand, no discharge. I tested it for seman and the test was negative.

[FYIbiatches]

Seriously? If my husband checked my panties he'd be convinced I was cheating.

Women have all kinds of discharge that can vary during her monthly cycle. For me, I have a hormonal imbalance so it looks like I got lucky sometimes, but it sure as hell isn't from that, I can assure you.

as for a 2 hour trip to the store, again, if my husband based it on that...

Sometimes we need to get out of the house, away from everyone and just be. I can easily spend 2 hours in a store looking and comparing all the sales when I went in there just to get a weeks worth of groceries.

Please tell me you have more evidence than this, otherwise based on what you're saying I'm a cheater.

[Donadoni1809]

You folks are great. I really appreciate your advice. Sounds like I need to stop seeing trouble were there isn't any and just enjoy the bliss