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**AnIInWon** · 10-23-2011, 12:16 PM

Assalam o alykom!

how are you all my brothers and sisters?

well i am Alhamdulillah very good.. just a few confusions.. one of the biggest one is that " does Allah love me?' i feel like at times he is " naraaz" with me.. and i really do feel like that..

and second one.. i NEED to boast up my Emaan.. i dont feel like doing ebadah..

jazak Allah

**THOUTHCAW** · 10-23-2011, 12:21 PM

Why do you feel Allah is naraaz with you?

Read Seerah, stories of Sahaba, stories of the pious.

Just keep on doing Ibadah even if you don't feel like, you will get double ajr.

**AnIInWon** · 10-23-2011, 12:33 PM

Why do you feel Allah is naraaz with you?

Read Seerah, stories of Sahaba, stories of the pious.

Just keep on doing Ibadah even if you don't feel like, you will get double ajr.

jazak Allah

i feel because i heard that Allah is naraaz with the one who doesnot get ill not even once in a whole year..

and i dont pretty much suffer from " fever " i dont noe the english word.. whenever i feel some illnes i pray and ea a medicine and everything becomes fine..

but that day i saw a muslim.. not a very practising one in sickness. i dont know this thought just came into my mind that.. he isnt even a practicing one and Allah has granted him sickness and not me.. ( please tell me if i shouldnt be thinking like that )

ad such thoughts like that have started coming into my mind that he aint a good muslim ( i dont know how to help that) please tell me

bt then even when i have become "ill bad throat and fever yet i feel like Allah is naraaz with me.. oh i dont know anything.. maybe that was just explanation of my condition not the answer to your question

and alsoe i feel like my " prayers" (duas) arent being accepted..

**mikeyyuiok** · 10-23-2011, 12:34 PM

Assalam o alykom!

how are you all my brothers and sisters?

well i am Alhamdulillah very good.. just a few confusions.. one of the biggest one is that " does Allah love me?' i feel like at times he is " naraaz" with me.. and i really do feel like that..

Wa alaikum assalaam.

Love of Allah mentioned in the Quran:

Allah Almighty says,
"Say: 'If you love Allah, then follow me and Allah will love you and forgive you for your wrong actions,
Allah is Ever-Forgiving, Most Merciful."
(3:31)

Is it due to the hardships that you kind of think that Allah is angry with us? Well the hardships are the part of Faith in Allah will test the believers, but this does not mean Allah is angry because he still provides us food and shelter and all those infinite mercy that keeps us alive. Also remember these hardships we face will be the reason of expatiation of our Sins in the Hereafter.

We do commit sins, but Allah is the most forgiving, so we should sincerely repent and ask for forgiveness from our heart and we should try not to repeat the sins.

Allah's love for His slave is more than the love of a mother to her newborn child. What more do we need.

**mikeyyuiok** · 10-23-2011, 12:39 PM

i feel because i heard that Allah is naraaz with the one who doesnot get ill not even once in a whole year.. I don't think thats true. Its a mercy of Allah that we are free from illness.

ad such thoughts like that have started coming into my mind that he aint a good muslim ( i dont know how to help that) please tell me Actually that thoughts are good in a way, so we will work ourselves to become a better Muslim. If we are self satisfied then we will never strive for more. Being self satisfied is in a way arrogance i think.

and alsoe i feel like my " prayers" (duas) arent being accepted.. Don't worry, sometime Duas are delayed in being accepted. The importance is to be patient. Duas made without patience is not accepted. Who else can we ask other than Allah the Almighty.

**AnIInWon** · 10-23-2011, 12:47 PM

I don't think thats true. Its a mercy of Allah that we are free from illness.

Actually that thoughts are good in a way, so we will work ourselves to become a better Muslim. If we are self satisfied then we will never strive for more. Being self satisfied is in a way arrogance i think.

Don't worry, sometime Duas are delayed in being accepted. The importance is to be patient. Duas made without patience is not accepted. Who else can we ask other than Allah the Almighty.

Jazak Allah loadssss!!

I have started praying very fast i mean salah and the duas both.. no patience as if i am reading something.. not actually asking something with humility.. and i ahve started feeling like i have to ego problem

**THOUTHCAW** · 10-23-2011, 12:52 PM

jazak Allah

i feel because i heard that Allah is naraaz with the one who doesnot get ill not even once in a whole year..

It is mentioned in hadith that fever is the heat of Jahannum which Allah sends to you in dunia to relieve your azaab from there.

Any misery that you face in the world can be divided into two types:

1) It is a Rahmat
2) Is is Azaab

1) Your sins get washed away. If you don't sin much then your darajaat increase in Akhirat. If you are a sinner and you turn towards Allah then it is a rahmat.

2) Azaab: you are a sinner and you still don't turn towards Allah then it is azaab on you.

If your ibadats increase and your zikr increases after any illness then it was Rahmat and Allah is happy with you.

If you don't get any illness and you still are doing regular ibadats then Allah is happy with you.

Don't worry.

Remember me in your duas too.

**AnIInWon** · 10-24-2011, 03:03 PM

jazak Allah

i feel because i heard that Allah is naraaz with the one who doesnot get ill not even once in a whole year..

and i dont pretty much suffer from " fever " i dont noe the english word.. whenever i feel some illnes i pray and ea a medicine and everything becomes fine..

but that day i saw a muslim.. not a very practising one in sickness. i dont know this thought just came into my mind that.. he isnt even a practicing one and Allah has granted him sickness and not me.. ( please tell me if i shouldnt be thinking like that )

ad such thoughts like that have started coming into my mind that he aint a good muslim ( i dont know how to help that) please tell me

bt then even when i have become "ill bad throat and fever yet i feel like Allah is naraaz with me.. oh i dont know anything.. maybe that was just explanation of my condition not the answer to your question

and alsoe i feel like my " prayers" (duas) arent being accepted..

JazakAllah loads brother! May Allah give you loads of rewards! Ameen

May Allah bless all

that was very helpful indeed Alhamdulillah MashaAllah

**AndyColemants** · 10-24-2011, 03:08 PM

JazakAllah loads brother! May Allah give you loads of rewards! Ameen

May Allah bless all

that was very helpful indeed Alhamdulillah MashaAllah

Write these haalaat to ur sheikh if u have any.!

**AnIInWon** · 10-24-2011, 05:32 PM

Write these haalaat to ur sheikh if u have any.!

i dont have any

well where can one find a sheikh?

**AndyColemants** · 10-24-2011, 11:03 PM

i dont have any

well where can one find a sheikh?

Whose bayanat do u often listen to and feel motivated spiritually??
If he is a khalifa of anyone then he can certainly be ur sheikh..

**panholio** · 10-25-2011, 02:08 AM

Just keep on doing Ibadah even if you don't feel like, you will get double ajr.

Can you show me where this is from? I had a big problem with something regarding this a while back, but if this is true I should be free from such doubts.

**AnIInWon** · 10-27-2011, 11:02 PM

Whose bayanat do u often listen to and feel motivated spiritually??
If he is a khalifa of anyone then he can certainly be ur sheikh..

maulana abdus satar hifazaullah.. ( i guess maulana mufti Taqi Usmani 's student

**CO2490pL** · 10-27-2011, 11:29 PM

Can you show me where this is from? I had a big problem with something regarding this a while back, but if this is true I should be free from such doubts.

Hadhrat 'Aa'ishah (Kadhiyallaho anha) narrates that
Rasulullah (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) once said.
"One who is well versed in the Qur'an will be in the
companv of those angels who are scribes, noble and
righteous; and one who falters in reading the Qur'an,
- and has to exert hard for learning, gets double the
reward."
i guess from here ^^

**CO2490pL** · 10-27-2011, 11:31 PM

maulana abdus satar hifazaullah.. ( i guess maulana mufti Taqi Usmani 's student

Do you mean Shaykh husain abdus sattar, khalifa of pir zulfiqar naqshbandi?

**AnIInWon** · 10-28-2011, 10:59 PM

Do you mean Shaykh husain abdus sattar, khalifa of pir zulfiqar naqshbandi?

brother i aint got much knowlegde about religious scholars.. he is the imam of masjod bait us salam

but i aint a regular sudent.. i want to become one.. can you please tell how may i help ith the flash on this site?

http://www.fahmedeen.org/new/file-29...0-2011%29.html

its not installing?

**AndyColemants** · 10-29-2011, 01:14 PM

maulana abdus satar hifazaullah.. ( i guess maulana mufti Taqi Usmani 's student

A great personality mashaAllah..U can have him as your sheikh for sure.

**AndyColemants** · 10-29-2011, 01:17 PM

brother i aint got much knowlegde about religious scholars.. he is the imam of masjod bait us salam

but i aint a regular sudent.. i want to become one.. can you please tell how may i help ith the flash on this site?

http://www.fahmedeen.org/new/file-29...0-2011%29.html

its not installing?

Download flash player Exit your browser while it installs.

**panholio** · 10-29-2011, 07:50 PM

Hadhrat 'Aa'ishah (Kadhiyallaho anha) narrates that
Rasulullah (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) once said.
"One who is well versed in the Qur'an will be in the
companv of those angels who are scribes, noble and
righteous; and one who falters in reading the Qur'an,
- and has to exert hard for learning, gets double the
reward."
i guess from here ^^

السلام عليكم

That quote is double for those who struggle but it seems like a willing struggle whereas I was asking specifically about those who dont want to do it at all as M.T was referring to, not those who want to do it but find it hard if that makes sense?

و عليكم السلام

10-23-2011, 12:16 PM	#1
AnIInWon Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 556 Senior Member	a bit of advice Assalam o alykom! how are you all my brothers and sisters? well i am Alhamdulillah very good.. just a few confusions.. one of the biggest one is that " does Allah love me?' i feel like at times he is " naraaz" with me.. and i really do feel like that.. and second one.. i NEED to boast up my Emaan.. i dont feel like doing ebadah.. jazak Allah Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-23-2011, 12:21 PM	#2
THOUTHCAW Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 389 Senior Member	Why do you feel Allah is naraaz with you? Read Seerah, stories of Sahaba, stories of the pious. Just keep on doing Ibadah even if you don't feel like, you will get double ajr. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-23-2011, 12:33 PM	#3
AnIInWon Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 556 Senior Member	Why do you feel Allah is naraaz with you? Read Seerah, stories of Sahaba, stories of the pious. Just keep on doing Ibadah even if you don't feel like, you will get double ajr. jazak Allah i feel because i heard that Allah is naraaz with the one who doesnot get ill not even once in a whole year.. and i dont pretty much suffer from " fever " i dont noe the english word.. whenever i feel some illnes i pray and ea a medicine and everything becomes fine.. but that day i saw a muslim.. not a very practising one in sickness. i dont know this thought just came into my mind that.. he isnt even a practicing one and Allah has granted him sickness and not me.. ( please tell me if i shouldnt be thinking like that ) ad such thoughts like that have started coming into my mind that he aint a good muslim ( i dont know how to help that) please tell me bt then even when i have become "ill bad throat and fever yet i feel like Allah is naraaz with me.. oh i dont know anything.. maybe that was just explanation of my condition not the answer to your question and alsoe i feel like my " prayers" (duas) arent being accepted.. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-23-2011, 12:34 PM	#4
mikeyyuiok Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 502 Senior Member	Assalam o alykom! how are you all my brothers and sisters? well i am Alhamdulillah very good.. just a few confusions.. one of the biggest one is that " does Allah love me?' i feel like at times he is " naraaz" with me.. and i really do feel like that.. Wa alaikum assalaam. Love of Allah mentioned in the Quran: Allah Almighty says, "Say: 'If you love Allah, then follow me and Allah will love you and forgive you for your wrong actions, Allah is Ever-Forgiving, Most Merciful." (3:31) Is it due to the hardships that you kind of think that Allah is angry with us? Well the hardships are the part of Faith in Allah will test the believers, but this does not mean Allah is angry because he still provides us food and shelter and all those infinite mercy that keeps us alive. Also remember these hardships we face will be the reason of expatiation of our Sins in the Hereafter. We do commit sins, but Allah is the most forgiving, so we should sincerely repent and ask for forgiveness from our heart and we should try not to repeat the sins. Allah's love for His slave is more than the love of a mother to her newborn child. What more do we need. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-23-2011, 12:39 PM	#5
mikeyyuiok Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 502 Senior Member	i feel because i heard that Allah is naraaz with the one who doesnot get ill not even once in a whole year.. I don't think thats true. Its a mercy of Allah that we are free from illness. ad such thoughts like that have started coming into my mind that he aint a good muslim ( i dont know how to help that) please tell me Actually that thoughts are good in a way, so we will work ourselves to become a better Muslim. If we are self satisfied then we will never strive for more. Being self satisfied is in a way arrogance i think. and alsoe i feel like my " prayers" (duas) arent being accepted.. Don't worry, sometime Duas are delayed in being accepted. The importance is to be patient. Duas made without patience is not accepted. Who else can we ask other than Allah the Almighty. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-23-2011, 12:47 PM	#6
AnIInWon Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 556 Senior Member	I don't think thats true. Its a mercy of Allah that we are free from illness. Actually that thoughts are good in a way, so we will work ourselves to become a better Muslim. If we are self satisfied then we will never strive for more. Being self satisfied is in a way arrogance i think. Don't worry, sometime Duas are delayed in being accepted. The importance is to be patient. Duas made without patience is not accepted. Who else can we ask other than Allah the Almighty. Jazak Allah loadssss!! I have started praying very fast i mean salah and the duas both.. no patience as if i am reading something.. not actually asking something with humility.. and i ahve started feeling like i have to ego problem Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-23-2011, 12:52 PM	#7
THOUTHCAW Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 389 Senior Member	jazak Allah i feel because i heard that Allah is naraaz with the one who doesnot get ill not even once in a whole year.. It is mentioned in hadith that fever is the heat of Jahannum which Allah sends to you in dunia to relieve your azaab from there. Any misery that you face in the world can be divided into two types: 1) It is a Rahmat 2) Is is Azaab 1) Your sins get washed away. If you don't sin much then your darajaat increase in Akhirat. If you are a sinner and you turn towards Allah then it is a rahmat. 2) Azaab: you are a sinner and you still don't turn towards Allah then it is azaab on you. If your ibadats increase and your zikr increases after any illness then it was Rahmat and Allah is happy with you. If you don't get any illness and you still are doing regular ibadats then Allah is happy with you. Don't worry. Remember me in your duas too. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-24-2011, 03:03 PM	#8
AnIInWon Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 556 Senior Member	jazak Allah i feel because i heard that Allah is naraaz with the one who doesnot get ill not even once in a whole year.. and i dont pretty much suffer from " fever " i dont noe the english word.. whenever i feel some illnes i pray and ea a medicine and everything becomes fine.. but that day i saw a muslim.. not a very practising one in sickness. i dont know this thought just came into my mind that.. he isnt even a practicing one and Allah has granted him sickness and not me.. ( please tell me if i shouldnt be thinking like that ) ad such thoughts like that have started coming into my mind that he aint a good muslim ( i dont know how to help that) please tell me bt then even when i have become "ill bad throat and fever yet i feel like Allah is naraaz with me.. oh i dont know anything.. maybe that was just explanation of my condition not the answer to your question and alsoe i feel like my " prayers" (duas) arent being accepted.. JazakAllah loads brother! May Allah give you loads of rewards! Ameen May Allah bless all that was very helpful indeed Alhamdulillah MashaAllah Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-24-2011, 03:08 PM	#9
AndyColemants Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 344 Senior Member	JazakAllah loads brother! May Allah give you loads of rewards! Ameen May Allah bless all that was very helpful indeed Alhamdulillah MashaAllah Write these haalaat to ur sheikh if u have any.! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-24-2011, 05:32 PM	#10
AnIInWon Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 556 Senior Member	Write these haalaat to ur sheikh if u have any.! i dont have any well where can one find a sheikh? Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-24-2011, 11:03 PM	#11
AndyColemants Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 344 Senior Member	i dont have any well where can one find a sheikh? Whose bayanat do u often listen to and feel motivated spiritually?? If he is a khalifa of anyone then he can certainly be ur sheikh.. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-25-2011, 02:08 AM	#12
panholio Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 409 Senior Member	Just keep on doing Ibadah even if you don't feel like, you will get double ajr. Can you show me where this is from? I had a big problem with something regarding this a while back, but if this is true I should be free from such doubts. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-27-2011, 11:02 PM	#13
AnIInWon Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 556 Senior Member	Whose bayanat do u often listen to and feel motivated spiritually?? If he is a khalifa of anyone then he can certainly be ur sheikh.. maulana abdus satar hifazaullah.. ( i guess maulana mufti Taqi Usmani 's student Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-27-2011, 11:29 PM	#14
CO2490pL Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 437 Senior Member	Can you show me where this is from? I had a big problem with something regarding this a while back, but if this is true I should be free from such doubts. Hadhrat 'Aa'ishah (Kadhiyallaho anha) narrates that Rasulullah (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) once said. "One who is well versed in the Qur'an will be in the companv of those angels who are scribes, noble and righteous; and one who falters in reading the Qur'an, - and has to exert hard for learning, gets double the reward." i guess from here ^^ Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-27-2011, 11:31 PM	#15
CO2490pL Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 437 Senior Member	maulana abdus satar hifazaullah.. ( i guess maulana mufti Taqi Usmani 's student Do you mean Shaykh husain abdus sattar, khalifa of pir zulfiqar naqshbandi? Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-28-2011, 10:59 PM	#16
AnIInWon Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 556 Senior Member	Do you mean Shaykh husain abdus sattar, khalifa of pir zulfiqar naqshbandi? brother i aint got much knowlegde about religious scholars.. he is the imam of masjod bait us salam but i aint a regular sudent.. i want to become one.. can you please tell how may i help ith the flash on this site? http://www.fahmedeen.org/new/file-29...0-2011%29.html its not installing? Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-29-2011, 01:14 PM	#17
AndyColemants Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 344 Senior Member	maulana abdus satar hifazaullah.. ( i guess maulana mufti Taqi Usmani 's student A great personality mashaAllah..U can have him as your sheikh for sure. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-29-2011, 01:17 PM	#18
AndyColemants Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 344 Senior Member	brother i aint got much knowlegde about religious scholars.. he is the imam of masjod bait us salam but i aint a regular sudent.. i want to become one.. can you please tell how may i help ith the flash on this site? http://www.fahmedeen.org/new/file-29...0-2011%29.html its not installing? Download flash player Exit your browser while it installs. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-29-2011, 07:50 PM	#19
panholio Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 409 Senior Member	Hadhrat 'Aa'ishah (Kadhiyallaho anha) narrates that Rasulullah (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) once said. "One who is well versed in the Qur'an will be in the companv of those angels who are scribes, noble and righteous; and one who falters in reading the Qur'an, - and has to exert hard for learning, gets double the reward." i guess from here ^^ السلام عليكم That quote is double for those who struggle but it seems like a willing struggle whereas I was asking specifically about those who dont want to do it at all as M.T was referring to, not those who want to do it but find it hard if that makes sense? و عليكم السلام Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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