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Old 01-05-2009, 03:09 PM   #1
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Our generations are in serious danger due to this issue. We can never stop spreading cure of this disease.

Assalamu alaikum,
The thing with our elders is that they focus on the problems that society actually faces. And it is for this exact reason that they get criticized, because it does not suite people's nafs.
Unfortunately our focus and attention is so focused towards the dunya that we (myself included in this blame) are not willing to make small sacrifices required to put the advices of our akabireen into action.
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Old 01-05-2009, 09:26 PM   #2
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Very useful, very informative and very correct. May Allah grant us mercy and allow us to rid our Ummah of this sin. Ameen.

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Old 09-04-2012, 02:56 AM   #3
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Default 14 Harms Of Casting Evil Glances (illicit sexual intercourse and masturbation)
In this day and age, due to the shamelessness and immodesty which has been spread through Pornography, TV, VCR, Internet, Cell Phone, Cinema, etc., so many people's lives have been destroyed. Young people have ruined their youth in illicit sexual intercourse and masturbation. Life-life marriages have been broken due to unlawful love affairs. On a social level, society is plagued with problems such as rape, prostitution, child molestation and pedophile, homosexuality, AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases.

The question arises as to what is the root of all these problems. May Allah Ta'ala reward our Masha'ikh and pious predecessors, who look at the world with the eye of the heart, enlightened by the light of the Qur’aan, Hadith and the burning love of Allah Ta’ala. They have diagnosed all these sickness to be brought about by one deadly disease. The root of all these problems is the SIN OF THE EYES, casting evil glances, looking at the opposite or same sex with lustful gazes. Unfortunately today, people do not even consider casting evil glances to be a sin, when in actuality it is the root of innumerable vices and sins.

Another reality which people are totally unaware of is that by protecting one's eyes from lustful glances, one is promised the taste of the sweetness of Imaan.

Once the sweetness of Imaan enters the heart, it will never be taken back. Thus by protecting the eyes, one is given grad tidings of a good death. Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) said:



ان النظرة سھم من سھام ابلیس مسموم من تر کھا مخافتی ابدلتہ ایمانا یجد حلاوتہ فی قلبہ

"Verily the evil glance is a poisonous arrow from the arrows of Iblees. He who abstains from casting evil glances, I will grant him such Imaan, that he will feel the sweetness of it in his heart". (Narrated by Ibn Mas’ud in Tabarani and Kanzul-Ummaal; Vol. 5, pg. 228),

(Ibn Katheer; Surra Nur, Ayat 30)



Hafiz ibn Katheer (رحمۃ اللہ علیہ) mentions in his Tafseer:



من حفظ بصرہ اورثہ اللہ نورا فی بصیرتہ

"He who protects his eyes from unlawful gazes, Allah Ta'ala will grant him the light of the heart."



We ask Allah Ta'ala that He makes this booklet a means of exposing the reality of this destructive disease and that He guides the entire Ummah from the darknesses of sin into the light of piety and obedience to Allah Ta'ala and Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم). May He make it a means of eternal reward for our Shaikh, Hazrat-e-Aqdas Moulana Shah Hakeem Muhammad Akhtar Saheb (دامت برکاتہم), who has devoted his entire life to purification of the Nafs, امر با المعروف ونہی عن المنکر (enjoining good and forbidding evil). May He accept it out of His sheer Mercy. Ameen

http://www.khanqah.org/books/show/14...g-evil-glances
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Old 09-04-2012, 02:56 AM   #4
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A must read
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Old 09-04-2012, 02:56 AM   #5
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Email it to your mailing list and other friends.
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Old 09-04-2012, 02:56 AM   #6
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I downloaded and printed it yesterday and then spent some time reading through the entire kitaab.

Whats so Ajeeb about our Mashaikh is their ability to understand the situations we find ourselves in and the reality of life in the 21st century.

May Allah grant us all the ability to take heed of hakim sahebs golden advices
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Old 09-04-2012, 02:56 AM   #7
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SubhanAllah!!

This is an extremely beneficial book by Aarif Billah Shaykh Ul Arab Wal Ajam Hazrat e Aqdas Maulana Shah Hakeem Muhammad Akhtar Sahab Damatbarakatuhum, which has saved countless lives from getting ruined. Through this book Allah(SWT) has given Hazrat Wala Db the Taufeeq to protect the youth and Imaan of countless people.

A Must Read!!!


The 14 Harms of Casting Evil Glances
(URDU VERSION) (ENGLISH VERSION)
Jazak Allah Brother Khadim.Deen
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Old 09-04-2012, 02:56 AM   #8
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Spread this in your mailing list and other social networks

In this day and age, due to the shamelessness and immodesty which has been spread through Pornography, TV, VCR, Internet, Cell Phone, Cinema, etc., so many people's lives have been destroyed. Young people have ruined their youth in illicit sexual intercourse and masturbation. Life-life marriages have been broken due to unlawful love affairs. On a social level, society is plagued with problems such as rape, prostitution, child molestation and pedophile, homosexuality, AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases.

The question arises as to what is the root of all these problems. May Allah Ta'ala reward our Masha'ikh and pious predecessors, who look at the world with the eye of the heart, enlightened by the light of the Qur’aan, Hadith and the burning love of Allah Ta’ala. They have diagnosed all these sickness to be brought about by one deadly disease. The root of all these problems is the SIN OF THE EYES, casting evil glances, looking at the opposite or same sex with lustful gazes. Unfortunately today, people do not even consider casting evil glances to be a sin, when in actuality it is the root of innumerable vices and sins.

Another reality which people are totally unaware of is that by protecting one's eyes from lustful glances, one is promised the taste of the sweetness of Imaan.

Once the sweetness of Imaan enters the heart, it will never be taken back. Thus by protecting the eyes, one is given grad tidings of a good death. Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) said:



ان النظرة سھم من سھام ابلیس مسموم من تر کھا مخافتی ابدلتہ ایمانا یجد حلاوتہ فی قلبہ

"Verily the evil glance is a poisonous arrow from the arrows of Iblees. He who abstains from casting evil glances, I will grant him such Imaan, that he will feel the sweetness of it in his heart". (Narrated by Ibn Mas’ud in Tabarani and Kanzul-Ummaal; Vol. 5, pg. 228),

(Ibn Katheer; Surra Nur, Ayat 30)



Hafiz ibn Katheer (رحمۃ اللہ علیہ) mentions in his Tafseer:



من حفظ بصرہ اورثہ اللہ نورا فی بصیرتہ

"He who protects his eyes from unlawful gazes, Allah Ta'ala will grant him the light of the heart."



We ask Allah Ta'ala that He makes this booklet a means of exposing the reality of this destructive disease and that He guides the entire Ummah from the darknesses of sin into the light of piety and obedience to Allah Ta'ala and Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم). May He make it a means of eternal reward for our Shaikh, Hazrat-e-Aqdas Moulana Shah Hakeem Muhammad Akhtar Saheb (دامت برکاتہم), who has devoted his entire life to purification of the Nafs, امر با المعروف ونہی عن المنکر (enjoining good and forbidding evil). May He accept it out of His sheer Mercy. Ameen

http://www.khanqah.org/books/show/14...g-evil-glances
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Old 09-04-2012, 02:56 AM   #9
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this thread deserves more attention.



SUBHANALLAH, this is one of the biggest problems facing the west!

READ THIS !
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Old 09-04-2012, 02:56 AM   #10
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subhanallah. these awalia are something else. they find the problems and give the most beautiful remedies before the majoroity even no they are facing a problem
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Old 09-04-2012, 02:56 AM   #11
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My Shaikh and mentor, Moulana Shah Abrarul-Haq Saheb (RA) has formulated some very important guidelines for protecting the gaze. I will present them here. Read them once daily with the intention of reformation.

The harms of evil glances are so numerous that sometimes one's Deen and worldly life are both destroyed. The evil effects of this spiritual disease are spreading rapidly nowadays.

Accordingly, it seems appropriate to mention the cure and remedy to all the harms which have been mentioned. Consequently, one can protect one's gaze by adhering to the following practices:

1) When women are passing by, keep the gaze low no matter how much one has an urge to look. If your gaze accidentally falls on someone, immediately lower it no matter how difficult it is, even if there is fear of losing your life.

2) Perform a minimum of two rakaats for every evil glance and also give some money in charity according to your means. Repent excessively.

3) Completely abstain from intermingling with the opposite sex or anyone, to whom one is sexually attracted to.

4) Do not read love poems or novels. Abstain completely from cinema, television, videos, unnecessary "surfing" on the Internet and all pornography.

5) Stay away from the environment of nudity and disobedience. Do not adopt the company of those who are involved in the disobedience of Allah.


By practicing the above mentioned guidelines, Insha-Allah, your Nafs will come under control. In this way you will be cured of the love of all beings other than Allah. Your heart and soul will perceive such rewards that will bring ecstasy to your soul all the time. The heart will experience such tranquility that even the kings do not dream of. It will seem as if a life of hell has been changed into a heavenly life.

May Allah Ta'ala grant us the ability to practice upon what has been mentioned. Ameen
دیں کا دیکھ ہے خطر اٹھنے نہ پائے ہاں نظر
کوئے بتاں میں تو اگر جائے تو سر جھکائے جا

Harm to Deen will be caused, do not allow the gaze to b raised,
Bow your head when you enter the street of the beloved.
Hafiz Ibn Katheer quotes a Hadith regarding the virtue of guarding the eyes from lustful glances in his Tafseer: Ibn Abi Dunya narrates on the authority of Abu Hurairah (رضی اللہ تعالیٰ عنہ) that Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) said:

قال ابن ابی الدنیا بسندہ: عن ابی ھریرة رضی اللہ عنہ
قال قال رسول اللہ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم
کل عین باکیة یوم القیامة الا عینا غضت عن محارم اللہ وعینا سھرت فی سبیل اللہ وعینا یخرج منھا مثل راس الذباب من خشیة اللہ


“Every eye shall weep on the Day of Judgment expect for the eye which was lowered from unlawful glances and that eye which stayed awake in the path of Allah and that eye which shed tears in the fear of Allah (even if tear be as small as the head of a fly).” (Tafseer Ibn Katheer: Sura Nur, Ayat 30)
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Old 09-04-2012, 02:56 AM   #12
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Assalamu alaikum,
The thing with our elders is that they focus on the problems that society actually faces. And it is for this exact reason that they get criticized, because it does not suite people's nafs.
Unfortunately our focus and attention is so focused towards the dunya that we (myself included in this blame) are not willing to make small sacrifices required to put the advices of our akabireen into action.
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Old 09-04-2012, 02:57 AM   #13
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