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Anyone else know what I mean?? My husband was so mad I would not eat his butter baked tilapia, I told him even a small amount is not good plus it's hard to eat with him, he says my food smells so bad and I should eat quest dip, it's so good..what can I do to get him off my back and be supportive??

[heennaRaf]

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Anyone else know what I mean?? My husband was so mad I would not eat his butter baked tilapia, I told him even a small amount is not good plus it's hard to eat with him, he says my food smells so bad and I should eat quest dip, it's so good..what can I do to get him off my back and be supportive??

Sorry to hear about that. Maybe when you do this for a bit and lose some weight that will help. Sometimes they just aren't supportive no matter what you do. Keep motivated you are doing well.

[Fegasderty]

Thank you, I am sticking to this! I have a question maybe you can help, does anyone mix vegetarian
With regular protocol? The reason I ask is I only like chicken on the list well red meat but it's really high in calories so could I use egg whites for one of my meals?? I do not want to eat only chicken for 40 days, thanks!

[QQQQQ-Trek]

Oh, I am so sorry he's not being supportive! There is nothing worse. I think some partners really just don't get it. They don't understand that not eating their food doesn't mean we don't love them or whatever. Also, sometimes when we start doing something to better ourselves, it reminds them of the flaws they have. If they are not ready to work on their flaws, they resent when we do. They are failing something in their lives and sometimes without even realizing what they're doing, they want us to fail as well.

Hang in there! Hopefully when he sees this change you are making is about you, and not about HIM, he will be more supportive.

[MackBranon]

Mine really likes my weight loss and my new libido. Tell him your libido will go up LOL
Does he have weight to lose as well? That may be one reason he is not supportive like Rhiannon says.

[gorbasevhuynani]

That's sad that he isn't supportive of you, and is trying to outright sabotage you.

I went shopping yesterday and spent right around $800 on clothes. My H just laughed when I told him this was a very expensive diet, and said that as long as I was happy, he was happy, and that I was gorgeous before and will only be just as gorgeous after.

I can turn evil sometimes (especially if I feel justified in my hurt), and I would move to the couch and tell him that his queso stinks too much for you to sleep in the bed with him. And when he bitches about that, tell him plainly and without anger or sarcasm that the fact that he is trying to sabotage your efforts to get healthier really hurt you, and that you really aren't interested in being close to him while he is actively trying to undermine you and shorten your life.

Don't be fretting about higher calories in red meat; that really isn't a big deal. Use really low fat ground beef (96/4 or 97/3 if you can find it), or use lean steak and cut all visible fat off. I like beef much more than chicken, and I ate it probably once a day on average. You can eat eggs on occasion, although they do make some people stall or gain. Use 1 egg plus 3 egg whites (I use the egg whites in the recloseable carton).

[joanbertis]

Thank you everyone. I am going to try eggs and steak once in a while, chicken is getting old already! My husband is always complimenting me, he just gets insecure..I think! Plus he does need to lose some weight, could be why...but the closest thing to healthy he eats is corn..he could never do this plan, he hates all fruit and veggies.

[freeprescriptionplanrrx]

The only chicken I can tolerate in P2 is the Dijon chicken that is in the recipes. It is excellent warm and cold.

[untostaronaf]

Thank you for the idea, I found the recipe and it's baking now and smells great!!