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HI all,

I am new to the site but I want to share a recent experience and see what kinda input I get.

I have been receiving messages on and off for about 8 months now. I feel I have been handling it very well and hve to admit being facinated by it. I have been fortunate enough to be able to validate several things I have seen and am working on a couple names I have received in "middle of the night" conversations (bless my husbands patience,lol).

Being new to this of course makes me a little hesitant to mention relevant contacts I have had and i have a serious one on my mind.

A family that is close to myself and my husband lost a son tragically on the highway when hit by on ramp traffic, I was told very little about the incident but felt the need to pass it onto my oldest driving son.

It was ment to be a lesson what not to do on the highway but turned into a lesson for me.

As soon as I mentioned this to my son I was smacked with a terrible pinching pain in my side and my chest hurt. It lasted all day but onl when I was driving the car was it really painful.

Knowing this was more than a cramp I started throwing out questions and immediately knew it was Shane. I feel it was him answering my inquiries but how do I pass this on gently to his mom. She needs to feel him with her, I know that. Their family has taken a serious downturn from this, divorce and the yougest has turned to drugs. Very tragic.

What he told me was that he had learned all he could from this life and his health and own drug issues were stopping him from learning more. He also said his journey was severely affecting his brothers and that now he could help guide him. i aslo saw a small brown bear.

I know they need to hear this, he was adamant about it, but at what point do you pass something like this on. It has really been on my mind in the last two days, the younger brother called my husband stoned out of his mind. He has another baby on the way, no job and no path. My heart just hurts for them.

Lisa,

You should call the mother and pass this message on!

I know its hard and scary sometimes to relay messages, but the boy needs his mother to know the reason. This will stop her feeling guilty, which she does it will ease some of her pain.

In my opinion i think you should pass the message on it could probably help his other family members

This is a really touchy situation. There are ways of feeling things out before you do anything. You cant pass on a messages to people are not ready to hear. Each one of them are going threw a morning process in diffrent ways. You are only able to witness part of a whole situation. I also feel that there is more involved in the situation besides Morning there brother and son.

The bear can have showed up for diffrent reasons, I have a feeling that he showed up to you to remind you to set boundries and try and help the family to heal in more gentle ways.

You stated you were close to the family, does the mother speak to you about her son who passed ? Did you ever speak to the mother on her beliefs about life after death?

There may be a way you can find out without bring her son into it. She may already feel him there, and be experiencing his presents if she is open. If She isnt open to begin with then your message will be more harmful then good.

But there can be other things you can do to help them heal by just being there giveing them love and support. When the time is right it could be years down the road you will know when to pass it on.

As for the brother becouse he is a drug abuser, he is most likely going to have to have his own awaking, he may have to fall before he can stand. You can only help those who are willing to be helped.

I also strongly belive that when spirit wants to get there message across, they will! I had received a message for my mother and didnt pass it on, becouse she doesnt want me doing this to begin with lol. I didnt tell her until I got the phone call.... " You are the only one I can tell this to who will belive me!" I stoped her before she could tell me... My story only confirmed that the message she received was real and not just a dream http://www.discussworldissues.com/fo...lies/smile.png

If I would have told my mother what had happened.
She:
1 would not have believed me.
2 when she had the dream she would have thought she had it becouse of what I told her, and it would have been just a dream that stemmed from our conversation not a message.
3. If I did try and pass it on she may not have gotten the message directly http://www.discussworldissues.com/fo...lies/smile.png

Instead of the messenger, I played a much more rewarding role. I was able to confirm to her that the message was real, and she felt the love of my Aunt first hand http://www.discussworldissues.com/fo...lies/smile.png

I am sure if the son came to you. He is with his family... He will continue to find ways to let them know he is there. You may be the "confirmation" of what they have or will experiance.

I will keep them in my prayers http://www.discussworldissues.com/fo...lies/smile.png Im sure you will find a way to handle the situation in a very gentle way.

GOD bless!

I agree with Smiles4you - passing on the message may be more harmful than good.
About 33 years ago my older brother was killed after his death my mother met with a medium that communicated with my brother. My mother tried to pass on messages to me from him and she told me he was okay. This before I was able to accpect what I do now. She pretty much freaked me out at the age of 17! It freaked me out for a long time and didn't believe my mother.
I believed my mother was crazy.

It is a hard situtation for their whole family. We had just moved away from them and they were transfered so we hve not talked as much as we should.

It is a terrible thing to bring up in a conversation and the poor mother just cries when she starts to talk about it so I will wait for the right time (if there ever is one).

I am sure he is with them and protetin them.

Lisa,

Please just pass the message on, all you have to do is call her and say the boy came to you and you feel she needs to her what he told you. It really has nothing to do with you personally, your just the vehicle he's used to get the message through.

His soul is waiting for this to be done, without it he can't transition. I'd do it for you if I could, but I don't know this lady, believe me she wont be angry, as you've said she cries every-time she tries to talk about him. This as I've said tells you she blames herself for not protecting him, not doing enough. She needs to know that he now understands, his part and that he will be assisting from the other side to correct the influence he's had on the younger son.

She will of course still grieve, but with not such a heavy heart.

Lisa just do it and get it over with,

You will be serving the higher cause.

Love and strength to you

Lisa, do what feels right to you. Ask for guidance, if you are intouch with your Spirit Guide(s) and angels ask them for advice. Utimately the decision is yours.

I really appreciate all the input. I am tryin to be more trusting of the new gifts that are presenting themselves. I emailed her and told her when she is ready to hear the message I am ready to pass it on. It is up to hr now.

Lisa,

thats great, now you're free. Its now up to her.


Love to you

I am a medium myself, it is hard to approach those that do not understand the Other Side.

Usually I phrase it more as a form of advice or endearment.

So if you would like to say something you can do it a few ways.

I tend to say "I had a dream that.. and I think maybe it means... "

Its very hard to bring up a subject unless it is already in the conversation. Use your gut and ask the spirit to guide you to when it is right. Ask for a sign, a nudge a tickle, etc.

Bless