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Old 02-21-2008, 01:49 AM   #1
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Default Why do people look down on others for wanting to be famous?
Or rich? I was never encouraged to follow my dreams of acting, owning a business, etc which are more reasonable, non-scammish ways to get rich and famous.

And I hate that the same people who said that just assume I am only only good for low end jobs or some form of gov't assistance, and they want to slowly becoming true and what I want isn't.

And one of them has become well off herself through stocks on her 401K and what not.

But why is there a stigma against someone who wants to do well for themselves? Or for the underdog to finally get their day?

I still get a feeling that some day I will be rich and famous and my wildest dreams will come true.
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Old 02-21-2008, 08:36 AM   #2
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PrincessKLS,

Well, to be quite honest with you, from my perspective, it sounds really selfish to want to be "rich and famous." I mean, at the end of the day, it's all material anyway. Don't be jealous of another's success in terms of wealth, but rather, if you want to prove yourself, go ahead and do exactly that. My advice is, don't sit around waiting to "win the lottery," but rather, work towards what you want. Don't let greed get the best of you, it's not really good for your soul. Plus, I suggest to look up the Laws of Attraction and Repulsion, maybe then you'll get a better understanding of what you want and why what you what isn't/doesn't work. Hope this helps.

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Old 02-21-2008, 01:18 PM   #3
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Yeah I've heard of laws of attraction.

So you're an aura reader? Can you sense someone's aura online?
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Old 02-21-2008, 04:09 PM   #4
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I would have to agree with bipsijay. Saying you want to be rich and famous isn't really setting out to do what you want to do with your life. Most people who are rich and famous (I could be wrong here) have that as a by product of doing what they want to do in life (ie. acting or making music). Of course some people do set out to be rich and famous and get it but I think that if you follow your dreams and do what you actually want to do in life you'll find that being rich and famous isn't so important.
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Old 02-22-2008, 12:15 AM   #5
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Well, I've got a feeling that I'm somehow meant to have a life in the public eye some day.
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Old 02-22-2008, 02:43 AM   #6
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Hi Princess, i just want to say that there is nothing wrong with you wanting to be famous and rich. We all deserve to have what we want and live in abundance as long as we don't abuse our power and don't hurt others. What would be wrong is to feel jealous about someone else's abundancy, be it financial or otherwise. We are all born with inherent skills or talents which are a real opportunity for us to reach for the abundance we want. But sometimes negative emotions like envy, anger,etc., or constant competing hinder the ability to develop our full potentials and very often we start blaming ourselves that we are good for nothing or we think others are better than us. We needn't compare ourselves to anyone else as we are all unique. There aren't more special or more deserving people. It's just that we are on different learning stages. But we all deserve good and we all deserve what we aspire to as long as , as I said before, we use it for our own and highest good.
I would suggest to work on healing and negative emotions first. As when we are in peace and love ourselves enough then abundancy starts flowing naturally, without struggle.
Please, do not feel guilty or ashamed for what you want to achieve. I wish you all the best Never give up on your dreams.

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Old 02-22-2008, 02:57 AM   #7
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Thank you for your support. And ironically I do know someone in my life who never encouraged me to go and do what I want with my life but she aspires to great riches and has a good job and 401 K plan.

And also she's someone who I am going to worry about when I do become rich and famous because she likes to steal things (she basically stole a purse from me) and beg for money from me when I have it.

It's like she won't let me be.

And it is sort of stopping from it.

A psychic did once predict that if she sees me getting successful off certain work she'll ride my coattails

It's almost like she sees me in a constant lower position than her and she doesn't want me to be successful and she is always bragging about the designer purses she gets. And yes I did finally get the purse back (she's a relative of mine). And I hide stuff from her to keep them safe and myself safe.
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Old 02-23-2008, 06:02 AM   #8
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PrincessKLS,

First of all, to answer your question, yes, I am an aura reader and I can sense auras online because it's only distance.

Secondly, I can clearly say that you're having great difficulty with conceptual contentment. You appear to not be happy with what you have and/or where you are in life. I'm fairly certain I'm not the only one who feels this way, psychic or not.

As a person who communicates with other people, it is easy to notice your envy and jealousy, especially dealing with your relative. I advise you to calm down, and not take this so seriously. I know we're not supposed to judge people on this site, but, to me it just seems that you're being whiny. (As I have also seen other posts of yours.) Learn to live with what you have, and don't hesitate to work your way "up," which in your case of wants, is financially/economically/ in terms of fame/wealth, etc. Starting off small can go a long way.

Alright then, hope you take some of this advice.

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Old 02-23-2008, 11:25 AM   #9
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Okay, you don't believe in judging on this forum? I don't appreciate being called jealous. I was verbally and physically abused by this person when I was younger and even today she doesn't support me and want to use my fame when it happens.

I'm sick of even close relatives saying I'm jealous but denying any jealousy they had of me, and if you don't know what I've been through you don't understand!!!!!
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Old 02-24-2008, 02:09 AM   #10
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Maybe people feel that one should try to aim for a realistic dream.
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Old 02-24-2008, 09:29 AM   #11
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I don't believe anyone really appreciates being called "jealous," Princess KLS.

I agree with vballbrea12 in that perhaps a more realistic dream would do you good.

All this talk about "fame" is so.... facetious for lack of a better word. I was being honest in expressing my opinion. And it's not that I don't understand, it's that I want you to see this from an "outsider's" impartial view. Be content with what you have, and try not spread too much malice as to seem hostile.

I hope you understand where I'm coming from, I don't want to seem like some kind of opponent to your life or anything, just someone who sheds some light. Take care.

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Old 02-25-2008, 06:50 AM   #12
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PrincessKLS,
If you want to be rich and famous....BE rich and famous. To each their own!!! I say good luck...and if anyone tries to hold you back or make you feel bad for wanting this for yourself....remember that most of us have been raised to beleive that if you want rich that somehow that makes you "bad" or selfish....that we should not want to be such a thing....But somebody has too...right?
Just remember when you ARE rich and famous that you use some of you well deserved money for those who are less fortunate...and help save the planet.
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Old 02-26-2008, 11:23 AM   #13
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PrincessKLS,

I agree with Jessica that you use money for those who are less fortunate. However, at the same time, as I was trying to say before, don't let the success of others arouse a sense of jealousy or anger within you. If you really want to go and do something, do it without the envy. If you saw me as being hostile and/or rude, I was just being a bit realistic. But remember, in the end, make sure you can be proud of who you truly are no matter what your economic status, and that's that.

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Old 02-26-2008, 12:43 PM   #14
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Maybe people feel that one should try to aim for a realistic dream.
I know someone who tells me that alot and her idea of realistic goals for me, is to go on disability
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Old 02-27-2008, 08:19 AM   #15
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Princess, maybe you should write a book? A story, or an auto-biography? Then once it's published(if you choose to do so), have copies made and try to have it sold in hallmark and other stores..

If you wanted to do an auto-biography for yourself, here are three points you should keep in mind:

"When writing an autobiography, you focus on three major things: who you are in
life, what life means to you and what your outlook on the future is."

If you want to be appreciated, noticed, and to earn abundance, you get yourself out there.. And writing may be a good start for you. You probably have a lot of good things to say, but it seems(at least here from what I've read) like you're focusing more on the dream than what you would want to do in order to achieve it. It would take time for sure, but it's not like you have to pay for courses in order to express yourself through language. I don't think you are looking to learn portuguese or something anytime soon, though. You speak good english. Just take a journal, or any paper and pencil.. even use Wordpad on the computer and keep notes and points saved in your email and file folders, make prints so they can't be erased, etc.

And hey, maybe if you read your own writing, you'll gain better perspective about yourself.. maybe you'll see things about yourself that you didn't realize before, and even make some money.

Or maybe you have a wide imagination and want to create a novel story on sci-fi/fiction, action/adventure..a comedy, or romance?

-shrugs- I hope my suggestion is a good one and it helps you.

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Old 02-28-2008, 09:46 AM   #16
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Doesn't sound all that bad, Silent!

Yeah, go ahead and give it a try, or at least attempt to gain an insight on yourself. Maybe it will actuallt help with at least some of your issues.

Take care now. Blessings and light,

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Old 02-28-2008, 10:19 AM   #17
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Well I have been told I'm good writer and I've tried writing a fictional book.
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Old 02-28-2008, 11:53 AM   #18
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You tried to write a fictional book? Does that mean it was never finished?

The thing is about writing stories.. is that you need to come up with a ton of things and piece things together to make it all flow in a story time line.. The characters.. their names and personalities, actions, the dialogue, the settings, the relationships, events, reasons... all kinds of stuff I don't even know.

Auto-biographies are just a little more simple because it's about you and your life. You already know what's happened and don't need to make things up..

You just need to finish your stories. Writing a book isn't about just trying.. you can't ..well at least you really shouldn't.. try to publish a half written book. Find something you're really drawn to, something that has been mostly consistent in your life for you to think about, and something you feel you have things to offer in a written book on the idea. It takes time to write a good book.. and sometimes writing gets boring, or you get confused on where to go next with something you've already done. Make sure you don't get tired of what you're writing about. ..

Dunno.
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Old 02-29-2008, 02:12 AM   #19
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Well, I'd start a story and a few pages later get bored and try another. But that is something I can strive for is to write a book or two.
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Old 02-29-2008, 04:28 AM   #20
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princess I am not sure if you want to be one of the rich and famous, but if thats what you choose then do it but remember always do things with love. I would also ask myself why I would want to be famous and rich? The lady that wrote the books Harry Potter, she wrote those books for her children as they were very poor, then she sold those books to help feed herself and her children. So ask yourself why you would want this goal and dont let the ego come into it okay, then if you get the correct answers then I say go for it, but remember all your knockers etc they are your teachers and take the lessons from them and expect hard work, as nothing comes free. Love and light to you and good luck
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