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07-01-2011, 03:45 AM
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With a mouth like that you probably sent your wife looking for an outlet. Is that the way you spoke to her even before what happened - I bet it is - your just angry and hiding on this forum now acting like some good boy.
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11-06-2011, 05:14 AM
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Can there be a time where cheating is justified?
I'm going to write about my friend who IMO is in an very unstable relationship with BF. They should move on already.
My friend has been in a 36 months relationship. She cheated first 10 months ago. Her bf walked in on her doing things (apparently they were about to go full till he busted them) with the OM. She regrets it, does all the crying & begs.... he still took her back However, a couple days ago he cheats on her with a known friend (he does the same type of cheating she did) but he confesses the next day and tells her himself. Now she's hurt too, he regrets it and we're working on it... I feel sorry for her but IMO wasn't her bf's cheating kind of justified? |
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11-06-2011, 05:46 AM
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12-05-2011, 07:02 AM
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They're both still in their 20's so that explains it. I also think the BF screwed that his ''friend'' and is only partially telling her.
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12-05-2011, 07:13 AM
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12-05-2011, 07:17 AM
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12-05-2011, 07:20 AM
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12-05-2011, 03:31 PM
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The question on the title really represents cheating because it should be justified, Its like sowing seeds of rebellion on the human emotions. I cannot back up the notion to cheat because other one has done the deed. One of two things can happen, here are two things I can think of: 1 Deal with it on daily basis, work on the affair wound day by day hoping it will heal, Thus the scar will remain. 2. Break up if you are an item, divorce to end the marriage due to the inability to try to cope with the actions of the betrayal.
If you chose option 2. the bible will clearly back you up. If you chose option 1. Its going to be a trial that will either make or break you. Everyone has choices, choices has consequences. Consequences has long term effects on life itself. why self inflict harm on yourself if the other person went and did the deed. I think its strange that a person feels like they are entitled to play after their loyal other did the trick. I am guess that this is what I have to add. Texas Tomcat |
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12-05-2011, 04:18 PM
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12-05-2011, 05:07 PM
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Before I even address your post, no there is never a justification to become a piece of crap cheater. I don't care what the situation.
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12-05-2011, 05:10 PM
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12-05-2011, 05:13 PM
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12-05-2011, 05:14 PM
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and really, angie, you sure this isn't your story?
I mean really, who comes on a board to ask about a friend's situation? people come to boards like this because they have been devestated, not to ask advice on a friends situation. |
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12-05-2011, 06:43 PM
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12-05-2011, 08:58 PM
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12-05-2011, 09:01 PM
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12-06-2011, 12:51 AM
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12-06-2011, 12:55 AM
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