[prowsnobswend]

very interesting

[brulpcoersero]

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here is the thing, these dregs of society inflict pain on someone and expect them to behave in a way that doesn't cause them grief?

I hate people who sleep with other people's spouses almost as much as I hate cheaters themselves.

its like a kid going up to another kid on the playground, hitting him, then crying when the other kid hits back.

[Kk21pwa9]

My husband's w***e asked my husband to leave me and go with her when her boyfriend found out about the affair, despite the affair being over (I am open to being corrected on any of the above points since i only have my cheating husband's word for them)

My husband kept going on about how this sl*t hated kids, when I brought my son into his work soon after I had had him, I was giving him round to the other girls for cuddles, i came to her and she practically jumped to the other side of the room with an "I hate kids", so what was she thinking in this little scenario, that he would leave me and go running to her, and what about his kids? Firstly I would not let that lying cheat w***e anywhere near my kids, they already have a lousy father, i am going to let THAT near them??? Also, with her reaction to kids....I am going to trust her to be anywhere near them???? er NO. Would I do things that would make me look like a psyco to keep the w****ing away from my kids....er YES. Well, they would be manipulated to make me look psyco, i am sure. That, or my husband wouldnever see his kids... Then that would make him a really aweful person and really not worth having (Although, i do see the irony in that these women cheat with a man, then expect him to leave the wife and then be faithful to her)

But if these women do not want ex wives, maybe they should stay out of marriages that have "wives" as when you sleep with the husband, break up the marriage, an inevitable side affect is an "ex wife" and a completelty destroyed one at that! idiots!!!

Plus, if someone is going to have an affair, they are liars. Most of the "correspondence" between new spouce and old spouce would be the lying cheat, and what are they doing to keep the women apart and on their side.....er LYING

[Poreponko]

I was so very upset after reading thier blog comments and messageboard that I haven't been able to go back and read anymore.

They think very highly of themselves, asserting themselves in the children's lives as the new 'stepmother' and bitterly blaming the ex-wife for all the problems.

It really gives a closer (and more frightening look) into the married lives of an OW/Wife. The competition doesn't end with the BS after the new marriage.

The step kids become pawns in an ongoing battle against the ex-wife, and that's exactly what I'm going through right now with my xWS and his OW/Wife. Now that they are married they think they are the best parents for my children and have taken over like a bad case of malaria.

[aLZ9zKsO]

This is a situation I looked into when contemplating leaving my husband. I looked up websites about stepmothers and what they think of the ex-wife. It made me aware of how the new wife thinks the ex-wife is psycho/crazy and yes, how willing they are to prove that they are the better woman by being able to make this man happy. Its just a power thing.

I am convinced it is all about women hating each other and being able to prove to another woman how powerful and enticing they are that they can take a man off them and keep him. It is a power struggle between women and the man just sits back and watches/allows it to happen.

I find it awful that I have decided to stay in my marriage because I cannot bear the thought of another woman being with my children and trying to prove she is the better "mother".

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[Poreponko]

In reasearching issues I have with my xWS and OW, I have somehow stumbled upon thepsychoexwife website, it is filled with bitterness and hatred against the exwife and thier plots and schemes over shared custody and visitation.

The new wives (read stepmothers) are very angry and has painted a portriat of the exwife being BPD, unstable and controlling. Demonizing at it's finest. They hope the exwife commits suicide or gets a DUI to get the exwife out of their lives, doing their level best to push her into it.

[Poreponko]

Really? How do you know there was no cheating? People who cheat often paint a portrait of 'innocence' (denial) and play the victim card very well... and all too often it is the betrayed that is painted to be the bully. People who cant take responsibility for thier own problems and blame others because thats all they know how to do.

This site is for the next wives to glorify themselves and to put the ex wife down because they are bitter and jealous of the ex wife and they use the step kids and all kinds of things to anger and provoke the exwife. Usually through her kids.

And yes lets be fair, because karmic justice can and does prevail as most second and third marriages are statisticly doomed to fail because these idiots never learn from their past mistakes and keep making them.

And its always someone elses fault.

[aLZ9zKsO]

I would hope that the second wife would get cheated on too. Why should the first wife be the only one cheated on?

I suspect that they treat the second wife better than the first and this is what angers the first wife. I dunno. I just hate the thought of another woman having anything to do with my children.

[LarryRda]

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OK, I'm not going to that site since it's just people complaining. I can say that I personally know of an ex wife that is a nightmare. A friend of mine is married to her ex husband. They had been divorced for over 5 years when my friend met him, so there was no cheating involved whatsoever. The first wife is a complete basketcase nightmare.

Let's be fair. Just because a person is the first wife doesn't mean she's the angel in the situation and just because there was a divorce doesn't mean there was cheating.

If there was cheating, I say hang the *****!!!

[Poreponko]

These exerpts are fairly 'tame' compared to others I've read, but all highlight the dysfunctions of a step-family and the insecure OW/Wife and her underlying hostility against the mother and the step-children. They are the a reason that step-mothers have such a bad reputation.

God forbid a mother wants to see her kids more than 'allowed' by the new wife...

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