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Actually, "because we're not religious" isn't entirely tautological. You could have wanted to go to church but been unable to because of prior obligations. We have a family friend who's deeply religious but can't go to church because her husband works on Sunday mornings and somebody has to stay home to mind her mother, who has Alzheimer's. This coworker may have just had a mindset that assumes everyone likes to go to church for some reason.