[Manteiv]

been married 25 years and recently discovered my husband visiting **** sites (looking for "discreet" sex) how do you handle something like this?

[zooworms]

How do you want to handle it? Is this something you can live with?

[Dwnijzhd]

Well, like previous answer what can you live with? What do you want? I am honestly from the school of thought that pretty much everyman looks at ****, I do. I did while I was married too, the difference is I didn't hide it from my wife, I was very open about it. I don't know if you would of been ok with it if he was open or not. Pretty much you need to sit down and talk with him about your needs and his and see if you both can understand each other and come to terms with what is acceptable in your relationship.

[Dwnijzhd]

sorry missed the part about wanting discreet sex, that is not acceptable at all if he is stepping out on the marriage, if it is just **** surfing I think most all men do it.