[Morageort]

How many times have you been cheated on?!

only once 8 months before my wedding.... your self ?

[citicroego]

only once 8 months before my wedding.... your self ?

Hahahahhahahhahahahahhahahahahahaha.......

[iodillalm]

Don't quite understand it myself. The basics are we got married young, and she doesn't want the responsibilities of marriage. Heck of a way to end an 8 year relationship. I mean I can understand where she's coming from, but from my PoV I'm like... lost and confused. *shrug*

Wow, man, that's a tough spot. Sorry for your troubles at the moment. It's odd though that this would be an issue after 8 years of being together... and what does "the responsiblities of marriage" really mean anyways? That just seems like a bad and vague attempt for a cop-out.

Has this been put through the ringer completely (ie. gone through and finalized divorce) or is there still a way back in if you two decide to redo this after she figures things out (assuming you'd want to obviously)? If she's like many of the women I've dated, she'll get to a point where she'll see what a fool she's made of herself and try to get back with you soon after or use you as a crutch until she finds what she needs somewhere else.

My last ex-gf broke up with me over stupid reasons, broke down and tried to get me to take her back a week later, and then tried to use me as an emotional crutch for the past year. I talk to her regularly, but the joke is on her if she thinks I'll be there for her every need. I have another GF now and she's higher on the list.

[Morageort]

Hahahahhahahhahahahahhahahahahahaha.......

indeed [rofl]

same excuse too, not ready for the responsibilities of marriage.

but thank Christ it didn't end up like rain wind 8 years into the marriage,which tbfh is a whole world worse, still makes you feel like **** though,as you tend to blame your self and try to work out what you did wrong when its her who decided its end-ex to pursue horizontal jogging

[KellyLynchIV]

Don't quite understand it myself. The basics are we got married young, and she doesn't want the responsibilities of marriage. Heck of a way to end an 8 year relationship. I mean I can understand where she's coming from, but from my PoV I'm like... lost and confused. *shrug*

Sorry to hear that. If you're ever in NY, i'll buy you a beer.

[Kemapreedasse]

Damn that sucks rain. On the brightside, thank god you don't live in lose half your stuff california.

Ever tried getting around that FM ban? I have the backup plan of internet tethering via my phone when visiting sites my work deems unsavory.

[LICraig]

She mainly just wants freedom. Doesn't want to have to be there for me. Financially I'm fair. I take the bed the tv and electronicsand she gets the house. She has no job not doing too hot in college and all her credit is maxed. I just don't get it. I'll survive just fine. Just don't understand the logic because I don't leash my woman. Women make no sense. Gonna room with a friend who got out of the army recently and is getting a house.

[KellyLynchIV]

She mainly just wants freedom. Doesn't want to have to be there for me. Financially I'm fair. I take the bed the tv and electronicsand she gets the house. She has no job not doing too hot in college and all her credit is maxed. I just don't get it. I'll survive just fine. Just don't understand the logic because I don't leash my woman. Women make no sense. Gonna room with a friend who got out of the army recently and is getting a house.

That sounds like a bum deal, but you'll get through it. You're pretty young and have yourself in order.

It sounds like a lot of young marriages - people realize they are getting older, and start regretting not playing around. It happens all the time. It has nothing to do with you, and all to do with her sense of self-affirmation, and desire for something new. To be fair, this happens to older couples also, but less so, primarily because by the time so much time has passed, they have their lives very seriously tied together, financially and with children. So they have affairs instead...

I know it sucks, but I suppose you're going to have to look at it as an opportunity to start a new life. Just realize that you are lucky that this happened to you now, and not 10 years from now, when the divorce would be a lot messier, there'd likely be kids to deal with, and you'd have a harder time finding another mate if you so desired.

[Morageort]

She mainly just wants freedom. Doesn't want to have to be there for me. Financially I'm fair. I take the bed the tv and electronicsand she gets the house. She has no job not doing too hot in college and all her credit is maxed. I just don't get it. I'll survive just fine. Just don't understand the logic because I don't leash my woman. Women make no sense. Gonna room with a friend who got out of the army recently and is getting a house.

she'll flog the house, make money out of it then move on then when that's depleted, she'll come a sniffing again.

mark my words.

[SallythePearl]

Just don't understand the logic because I don't leash my woman. Women make no sense.

Mate women are never logical. You could give them the world and they will get some dumb **** in their head that makes them leave you. You're not the first or the last.

With that said, probably best you do something to cheer you up. Take advantage of your situation take a holiday or buy something you haven't been able to under the wife.

All the best! [yes]

[_tppga_]

Doesn't want "the responsibilities of marriage" after 8 years? I'd say that stops being a valid excuse after about year three. Not much else to say really, Gnius nailed it pretty good.

You seem to be getting along well enough so far, so best of luck in the future wherever it may lead.

[mymnarorump]

Shouldn't it be whats right with this picture?

[htDgExh8]

Now here was me thinking you had gout

[Appenianags]

I was 100% sure the answer was that you broke your pinky

[Mowselelex]

I was 100% sure the answer was that you broke your pinky

You and me both!

Anyway, RainWind, You and me are pretty much in the same boat, my wife of 10 years asked me to leave nearly 6 weeks ago, So I moved out, still got about a quarter of my stuff in her loft, got my own place, I share a house with 2 other guys, one of which is the landlord, whose actually pretty cool and laid back!

My wife works (or rather worked) on the same shift as me at work, but I've just requested to be transferred to days, so I don't have to see her for 12 hours a day (or night as the case may be).

I've also got a new lease of life, I feel that a huge weight has been lifted from upon my shoulders, my stress levels have definitely dropped, because I don't have to put up with my stupid step-daughter and the constant arguing that used to happen between us, That's part of the reason my wife asked me to leave, because of the arguing, But if someone is 4 inches from your face and telling you to f*ck off and die, in your own house, your not going to just walk out of the room or stay quiet, are you ??

Anyway, my landlord, whose younger than me, is a bit of a fitness freak, so I asked him today if he'd help me loose my 10 year marriage paunch and after a bit of stretching to loosen up my muscles, we jogged/ran into the next village and back, which is about 3-4 miles, Might not seem like much, but its definitely a start, as I haven't jogged or run anywhere for over 20 years.

So the reasons I wanna get fit and trim my belly, is so that I can look great, feel great and make myself more attractive for the next women I date and to make my ex-wife jealous, when she see's what she's lost out of her life.

In the end it'll be her loss and not mine.

I suggest you do the same mate, just do something that changes the way you look and feel about yourself and get on with your life, I'm way too old to mope about the house and feel sorry for myself, what's done is done, sh*t happens, I thought I would have cried, but I actually haven't, maybe its not fully hit home yet.

Still, I've got something to aim for now, I wanna get fit and trim, until the next Miss Right comes along, Oh! and I want to get fit enough for endless, marathon sh@gging sessions, with some fit girl.

[htDgExh8]

You and me both!

Anyway, RainWind, You and me are pretty much in the same boat, my wife of 10 years asked me to leave nearly 6 weeks ago, So I moved out, still got about a quarter of my stuff in her loft, got my own place, I share a house with 2 other guys, one of which is the landlord, whose actually pretty cool and laid back!

My wife works (or rather worked) on the same shift as me at work, but I've just requested to be transferred to days, so I don't have to see her for 12 hours a day (or night as the case may be).

I've also got a new lease of life, I feel that a huge weight has been lifted from upon my shoulders, my stress levels have definitely dropped, because I don't have to put up with my stupid step-daughter and the constant arguing that used to happen between us, That's part of the reason my wife asked me to leave, because of the arguing, But if someone is 4 inches from your face and telling you to f*ck off and die, in your own house, your not going to just walk out of the room or stay quiet, are you ??

Anyway, my landlord, whose younger than me, is a bit of a fitness freak, so I asked him today if he'd help me loose my 10 year marriage paunch and after a bit of stretching to loosen up my muscles, we jogged/ran into the next village and back, which is about 3-4 miles, Might not seem like much, but its definitely a start, as I haven't jogged or run anywhere for over 20 years.

So the reasons I wanna get fit and trim my belly, is so that I can look great, feel great and make myself more attractive for the next women I date and to make my ex-wife jealous, when she see's what she's lost out of her life.

In the end it'll be her loss and not mine.

I suggest you do the same mate, just do something that changes the way you look and feel about yourself and get on with your life, I'm way too old to mope about the house and feel sorry for myself, what's done is done, sh*t happens, I thought I would have cried, but I actually haven't, maybe its not fully hit home yet.

Still, I've got something to aim for now, I wanna get fit and trim, until the next Miss Right comes along, Oh! and I want to get fit enough for endless, marathon sh@gging sessions, with some fit girl.

i feel like i just watched American Beauty



Anyways good luck to you guys

[Morageort]

You and me both!

Anyway, RainWind, You and me are pretty much in the same boat, my wife of 10 years asked me to leave nearly 6 weeks ago, So I moved out, still got about a quarter of my stuff in her loft, got my own place, I share a house with 2 other guys, one of which is the landlord, whose actually pretty cool and laid back!

My wife works (or rather worked) on the same shift as me at work, but I've just requested to be transferred to days, so I don't have to see her for 12 hours a day (or night as the case may be).

I've also got a new lease of life, I feel that a huge weight has been lifted from upon my shoulders, my stress levels have definitely dropped, because I don't have to put up with my stupid step-daughter and the constant arguing that used to happen between us, That's part of the reason my wife asked me to leave, because of the arguing, But if someone is 4 inches from your face and telling you to f*ck off and die, in your own house, your not going to just walk out of the room or stay quiet, are you ??

Anyway, my landlord, whose younger than me, is a bit of a fitness freak, so I asked him today if he'd help me loose my 10 year marriage paunch and after a bit of stretching to loosen up my muscles, we jogged/ran into the next village and back, which is about 3-4 miles, Might not seem like much, but its definitely a start, as I haven't jogged or run anywhere for over 20 years.

So the reasons I wanna get fit and trim my belly, is so that I can look great, feel great and make myself more attractive for the next women I date and to make my ex-wife jealous, when she see's what she's lost out of her life.

In the end it'll be her loss and not mine.

I suggest you do the same mate, just do something that changes the way you look and feel about yourself and get on with your life, I'm way too old to mope about the house and feel sorry for myself, what's done is done, sh*t happens, I thought I would have cried, but I actually haven't, maybe its not fully hit home yet.

Still, I've got something to aim for now, I wanna get fit and trim, until the next Miss Right comes along, Oh! and I want to get fit enough for endless, marathon sh@gging sessions, with some fit girl.

good on you mate

Just remember when the feeling finally hits don't let your self fall back.

[Mowselelex]

Nope! I intend to take it as a lesson and be more careful in the future, there's no way I'm jumping into another relationship, just gonna have some fun, being single again, and having more money too.

Intend to stick my rubber covered d!ck in as many different women as I can!