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Hi, first time user. I need advice. I don't know where to go from here. My husband is in the military. About 2 years ago he went on a TDY for 60 days and when he came home he said he didn't know if he loved me anymore and he didn't know if he was ready to be a husband and father. At the time we had been married 6 years and had a 5 year old and 2 year old together. We worked things out and I had heard from one of his friends that he cheated while over there, but my husband denied it and I chose to believe my husband. I found out yesterday that it was actually true. The woman he cheated with is also military and still works in his shop. She was married at the time also. I got him to admit it yesterday and now I am struggling with everything. He apoligizes over and over and says it was stupid and only happened once. I still love him, no matter how much I don't want to. Any advice opn anything would be helpful right now.
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No anger? Must still be in shock. Anger is a good tool to help one through.
If you are not going to Take up for yourself, nothing will change. This is what life will be like with him. He won't stop he has no fear of you. He says now he is sorry, this followed he did'nt know if he loved you? Typical cheaters words. You have to make your mind up to take care of yourself. Good start would be letting the o/w's husband know. |
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