[amagmasia]

I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for half a year. We had a tumultuous beginning, but now things are a lot smoother. But we barely have anything to talk about anymore. I feel like its a very empty relationship. There's just a big void where there should be conversation about interesting things. Note, *interesting* things. We struggle to talk about things after the whole "Hi, how are you? How was your day?" Just completely dead air. Any ideas as to what I should do? i feel as if if i dont find something soon shes gonna think im a boring person... i need some tips guys...[shocked]

[UMATURLIN]

Just kill yourself now.

[HOTgirlsXXL]

If there's no talking, there's no interest. Just call it off and save yourself the hassle.

[jstizzle]

Don't be such a loser?

But on a slightly more serious note, don't you two have any hobbies at all? Similar interests? If you don't, get some or "get some" from someone else if you know what I mean, and I think that you do.

[Quiniacab]

Indeed, go for it or break up now

[soydaykam]

Dammit.... is it my fault that all these girl threads started so soon after my thread? It is isn't it :S My bad.

[IRYzouNv]

Ill trade you gf's, Mine doesnt shut up.

[soydaykam]

Ill trade you gf's, Mine doesnt shut up.

lol........

[Jadldqys]

I would wait for Brat Gvidon's advice. [thumbup]

[orillaVar]

Take her out on a day trip, go do something exciting...Relationships almost always hit a slow spot for a bit, but will pass if the relationship is meant to be. How long has this been happening? Days? Weeks? A month or two? Spring is here with summer just around the corner. Think of something to do! Just make sure you two don't sit at the TV every night and do nothing. You shouldn't have to work too hard though. If you do, it just isn't worth it and won't be a lasting relationship.

[Seasmillets]

I would wait for Brat Gvidon's advice. [thumbup]

lolz that seriously was quite funny, nice one LordP.

[investor]

I would wait for Brat Gvidon's advice. [thumbup]

bahahaha[rofl] [rofl] [rofl]

[KeestRast]

I would wait for Brat Gvidon's advice. [thumbup]

Where is Oblisk's ascii art (the one with the guy slapping his forehead) when you need it? [rofl]

[ballingham]

After 6 years with my ex, this is exactly how our relationship was. She dumped me only a few days ago. I say end it now.

[herbalviagra]

I also recently split with my GF after 4 years, it was only 2 weeks ago that we got to our 4 th year anniversary. I called it off because of not being able to work through a tough patch due to me living in Madrid and she living in the UK.

I left it that upon returning we should look at what we had and see if its worth salvaging. It is hard if you hit a spot when you don't have anything to talk about. But it sounds like in your case its just complacency on both your parts.

So try and spice things up, if your both still floundering then end it amicably.

* for me it was due to my life being so different and I have developed in a whole new way. I have really left my GF behind, its a shame because if she had an experience like mine we would be on the same wave length and still be very happy with her!

[hechicxxrr]

best thing would be to maybe try and make an effort, but if thats been tried then i think it would be best to call it off

you will find someone else anyway, i went for a drink with a very attractive teacher last night and we just sat in the pub chatting for 3 hrs till we kinda realised they wanted to close[thumbup]

[mirvokrug]

BrokenSector *wink wink nudge nudge*^ There's ya problem...

[werkeeque]

isn't it better to look for a Girl related forum
rather then beeing with us HARDWARE BOYS

BTW help is on the way , i send doctor phill your way

[ClorrerVeks]

Well...one problem could be that you're spending farrr too much time together I don't care what relationship you're in...there HAS to be a "Cool off" period, where you guys are just "content" being with each other, and not all firery passion full of "OMG Incredible convos that we have. We stay up till 5am talking to each other!"



If you have nothing to talk about though, it's not just her fault. A bit yours as well. I know with mine, sometimes our conversations are "forced", but we're able to start a disucssion about stupid stuff for HOURS, and REALLY enjoy it.

At 6 months...you're probably at the "Cool off" period...just ride it. Don't put too much pressure on "Making the relationship work". It'll either last, or it won't.

[scewDeasp]

isn't it better to look for a Girl related forum
rather then beeing with us HARDWARE BOYS

BTW help is on the way , i send doctor phill your way

You know what SNW... I have noticed lately that you have developed quite the pet hate for people posting threads about girls.

Did some chick klap-trap your snack or something?