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**Nopayof** · 04-17-2007, 08:22 PM

Hey guys I have to ask a simple yet interesting question about a certain lady-friend. We've been dating for 5 months now and I told her I might "love
her...well she told me she wasn't sure about loving me, but shes like "I Really Really Really Like you" and she emphasized every Really...what should I do? this girl has never been in love b4 im confused, thanks for your input guys...Should I lay off the "love you" stuff for awhile? i mean its been half a year should I wait until a year has gone by?

**werkeeque** · 04-17-2007, 08:24 PM

Great you came to the right place to ask

yea say you love her and after that ....have a good banging [thumbup]

**sarasmid** · 04-17-2007, 08:27 PM

SnW is right, bang it while you can.

**boleroman** · 04-17-2007, 08:27 PM

Micron? Is that you?

**werkeeque** · 04-17-2007, 08:29 PM

Micron? Is that you?

[rofl] LOLLIES.........

**appleiphoneees** · 04-17-2007, 08:45 PM

I think it's better not to say it, until she feels the same way. An "I love you" is usually followed by "I love you too". So that's what you'll want to hear. She can't give you that, you might even make her feel bad for not being able to respond the way she'd be expected to.

**Biassasecumma** · 04-17-2007, 09:04 PM

Hey guys I have to ask a simple yet interesting question about a certain lady-friend. We've been dating for 5 months now and I told her I might "love
her...well she told me she wasn't sure about loving me, but shes like "I Really Really Really Like you" and she emphasized every Really...what should I do? this girl has never been in love b4 im confused, thanks for your input guys...Should I lay off the "love you" stuff for awhile? i mean its been half a year should I wait until a year has gone by?

To be honest, I'd prefer a "really, really, really like you" that is meant from the heart than a "I love you" that she feels she has to say in response.
Heck, I feel the "love" word is very much abused and used far too freely with too little meaning.

**ElenaEvgeevna** · 04-17-2007, 09:11 PM

To be honest, I'd prefer a "really, really, really like you" that is meant from the heart than a "I love you" that she feels she has to say in response.
Heck, I feel the "love" word is very much abused and used far too freely with too little meaning.

I agree,about both things.

**Nopayof** · 04-17-2007, 09:31 PM

So you guys think a "I really really really like you response" is better then an "I love you" response? I didn't actually say "I love you" I told her I really liked her and that maybe it was love but I wasn't sure...so I should play it low from now on? what should I honestly say

**ElenaEvgeevna** · 04-17-2007, 09:37 PM

So you guys think a "I really really really like you response" is better then an "I love you" response? I didn't actually say "I love you" I told her I really liked her and that maybe it was love but I wasn't sure...so I should play it low from now on? what should I honestly say

What should you say? What you feel,and go from there.

And yeah,something that is meant is far better than words thrown out to placate you.

**Biassasecumma** · 04-17-2007, 09:41 PM

So you guys think a "I really really really like you response" is better then an "I love you" response? I didn't actually say "I love you" I told her I really liked her and that maybe it was love but I wasn't sure...so I should play it low from now on? what should I honestly say

Forgot - except when it's followed by "BUT" - that's the kiss of death [no]

**ziIReIGS** · 04-18-2007, 02:21 AM

Let her say it first. Keep the power in your hands, if you say it, then she's one up on you... and you are down one. Relationships are all about who is on top..... You give in to her and you might as well trade in your dick...

**Ifroham4** · 04-18-2007, 03:44 AM

What should you say? What you feel,and go from there.

And yeah,something that is meant is far better than words thrown out to placate you.

I somewhat agree. It's better to be open and honest about your feelings, however, a lot of times people confuse infatuation with love. Infatuation says, We must love right away. I cant risk losing him/her. Love says, Be patient. Plan your future with confidence.

**highattainlet** · 04-18-2007, 04:24 AM

yup hump the shite out of her and hurl your load over her face giving her a stingy bloodshot eyeball !.

**TravelMan** · 04-18-2007, 04:27 AM

Hey guys I have to ask a simple yet interesting question about a certain lady-friend. We've been dating for 5 months now and I told her I might "love
her...well she told me she wasn't sure about loving me, but shes like "I Really Really Really Like you" and she emphasized every Really...what should I do? this girl has never been in love b4 im confused, thanks for your input guys...Should I lay off the "love you" stuff for awhile? i mean its been half a year should I wait until a year has gone by?

Say it to her when it seems special/appropriate.

Sounds to me like she has commitment issues, give her time.

**sanddrareyk** · 04-18-2007, 04:54 AM

JYFIHP?

And I dunno. I'm the same guy that rarely tells his wife "I love you."

**BadbarmrapBef** · 04-18-2007, 05:04 AM

SnW is right, bang it while you can.

I never understood why people have to be sex addicts. Hopefully you expect more from a relationship then humping like a rabbit all day long.

Bah, why am I responding. It is probably a user with 15k+ post who is to scared to post under the real name.

**snislarne** · 04-18-2007, 05:05 AM

Hey guys I have to ask a simple yet interesting question about a certain lady-friend. We've been dating for 5 months now and I told her I might "love
her...well she told me she wasn't sure about loving me, but shes like "I Really Really Really Like you" and she emphasized every Really...what should I do? this girl has never been in love b4 im confused, thanks for your input guys...Should I lay off the "love you" stuff for awhile? i mean its been half a year should I wait until a year has gone by?

A male GURU of woman?? I dont think that exists and anyone who claims to be one is lying their ass off. I have a wife and kids and been around a while and I still dont understand the complexity that is woman.

back on topic.....bang her.

**sanddrareyk** · 04-18-2007, 05:07 AM

A male GURU of woman?? I dont think that exists and anyone who claims to be one is lying their ass off. I have a wife and kids and been around a while and I still dont understand the complexity that is woman.

back on topic.....bang her.

Ditto, on both counts.

Actually. . .don't just bang her. . .blast her like a jack-hammer!

**Misebeita** · 04-18-2007, 05:27 AM

If you're not sure if you love her, then you don't love her. So don't lie and don't tell her you love her. Problem solved.

04-17-2007, 08:22 PM	#1
Nopayof Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 469 Senior Member	Girl Help, Gurus Please. Hey guys I have to ask a simple yet interesting question about a certain lady-friend. We've been dating for 5 months now and I told her I might "love her...well she told me she wasn't sure about loving me, but shes like "I Really Really Really Like you" and she emphasized every Really...what should I do? this girl has never been in love b4 im confused, thanks for your input guys...Should I lay off the "love you" stuff for awhile? i mean its been half a year should I wait until a year has gone by? Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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werkeeque Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 577 Senior Member	Great you came to the right place to ask yea say you love her and after that ....have a good banging [thumbup] Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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sarasmid Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 445 Senior Member	SnW is right, bang it while you can. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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04-17-2007, 08:45 PM	#6
appleiphoneees Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 541 Senior Member	I think it's better not to say it, until she feels the same way. An "I love you" is usually followed by "I love you too". So that's what you'll want to hear. She can't give you that, you might even make her feel bad for not being able to respond the way she'd be expected to. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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Biassasecumma Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 740 Senior Member	Hey guys I have to ask a simple yet interesting question about a certain lady-friend. We've been dating for 5 months now and I told her I might "love her...well she told me she wasn't sure about loving me, but shes like "I Really Really Really Like you" and she emphasized every Really...what should I do? this girl has never been in love b4 im confused, thanks for your input guys...Should I lay off the "love you" stuff for awhile? i mean its been half a year should I wait until a year has gone by? To be honest, I'd prefer a "really, really, really like you" that is meant from the heart than a "I love you" that she feels she has to say in response. Heck, I feel the "love" word is very much abused and used far too freely with too little meaning. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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04-17-2007, 09:11 PM	#8
ElenaEvgeevna Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 575 Senior Member	To be honest, I'd prefer a "really, really, really like you" that is meant from the heart than a "I love you" that she feels she has to say in response. Heck, I feel the "love" word is very much abused and used far too freely with too little meaning. I agree,about both things. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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04-17-2007, 09:31 PM	#9
Nopayof Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 469 Senior Member	So you guys think a "I really really really like you response" is better then an "I love you" response? I didn't actually say "I love you" I told her I really liked her and that maybe it was love but I wasn't sure...so I should play it low from now on? what should I honestly say Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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ElenaEvgeevna Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 575 Senior Member	So you guys think a "I really really really like you response" is better then an "I love you" response? I didn't actually say "I love you" I told her I really liked her and that maybe it was love but I wasn't sure...so I should play it low from now on? what should I honestly say What should you say? What you feel,and go from there. And yeah,something that is meant is far better than words thrown out to placate you. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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04-17-2007, 09:41 PM	#11
Biassasecumma Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 740 Senior Member	So you guys think a "I really really really like you response" is better then an "I love you" response? I didn't actually say "I love you" I told her I really liked her and that maybe it was love but I wasn't sure...so I should play it low from now on? what should I honestly say Forgot - except when it's followed by "BUT" - that's the kiss of death [no] Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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04-18-2007, 02:21 AM	#12
ziIReIGS Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 385 Senior Member	Let her say it first. Keep the power in your hands, if you say it, then she's one up on you... and you are down one. Relationships are all about who is on top..... You give in to her and you might as well trade in your dick... Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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04-18-2007, 03:44 AM	#13
Ifroham4 Join Date Apr 2007 Posts 5,196 Senior Member	What should you say? What you feel,and go from there. And yeah,something that is meant is far better than words thrown out to placate you. I somewhat agree. It's better to be open and honest about your feelings, however, a lot of times people confuse infatuation with love. Infatuation says, We must love right away. I cant risk losing him/her. Love says, Be patient. Plan your future with confidence. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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highattainlet Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 413 Senior Member	yup hump the shite out of her and hurl your load over her face giving her a stingy bloodshot eyeball !. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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04-18-2007, 04:27 AM	#15
TravelMan Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 421 Senior Member	Hey guys I have to ask a simple yet interesting question about a certain lady-friend. We've been dating for 5 months now and I told her I might "love her...well she told me she wasn't sure about loving me, but shes like "I Really Really Really Like you" and she emphasized every Really...what should I do? this girl has never been in love b4 im confused, thanks for your input guys...Should I lay off the "love you" stuff for awhile? i mean its been half a year should I wait until a year has gone by? Say it to her when it seems special/appropriate. Sounds to me like she has commitment issues, give her time. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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04-18-2007, 04:54 AM	#16
sanddrareyk Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 464 Senior Member	JYFIHP? And I dunno. I'm the same guy that rarely tells his wife "I love you." Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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04-18-2007, 05:04 AM	#17
BadbarmrapBef Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 514 Senior Member	SnW is right, bang it while you can. I never understood why people have to be sex addicts. Hopefully you expect more from a relationship then humping like a rabbit all day long. Bah, why am I responding. It is probably a user with 15k+ post who is to scared to post under the real name. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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04-18-2007, 05:05 AM	#18
snislarne Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 460 Senior Member	Hey guys I have to ask a simple yet interesting question about a certain lady-friend. We've been dating for 5 months now and I told her I might "love her...well she told me she wasn't sure about loving me, but shes like "I Really Really Really Like you" and she emphasized every Really...what should I do? this girl has never been in love b4 im confused, thanks for your input guys...Should I lay off the "love you" stuff for awhile? i mean its been half a year should I wait until a year has gone by? A male GURU of woman?? I dont think that exists and anyone who claims to be one is lying their ass off. I have a wife and kids and been around a while and I still dont understand the complexity that is woman. back on topic.....bang her. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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04-18-2007, 05:07 AM	#19
sanddrareyk Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 464 Senior Member	A male GURU of woman?? I dont think that exists and anyone who claims to be one is lying their ass off. I have a wife and kids and been around a while and I still dont understand the complexity that is woman. back on topic.....bang her. Ditto, on both counts. Actually. . .don't just bang her. . .blast her like a jack-hammer! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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04-18-2007, 05:27 AM	#20
Misebeita Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 368 Senior Member	If you're not sure if you love her, then you don't love her. So don't lie and don't tell her you love her. Problem solved. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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