[FLOMOUSLY]

So what's on your mind now? What are the priorities for you, in terms of what's bothering you right now.

1) Where you are going in your life, career-wise, financially-wise.
2) Trying to find out if your son is really your son, and trying to get him back.
3) Trying to deal with your mind, your emotions first which you clearly had trouble controlling before.
4) Trying to deal with the shame of ****ing up in front of your parents and trying to prove to them that you're not a ****-up.
5) ?

[loginptsa]

[quote=gabbernyc;525639]So what's on your mind now? What are the priorities for you, in terms of what's bothering you right now.

1) Where you are going in your life, career-wise, financially-wise. at the moment im on job seekers but want to work in a local skateboard shop

2) Trying to find out if your son is really your son, and trying to get him back. i wanna see him and will soon go to court

3) Trying to deal with your mind, your emotions first which you clearly had trouble controlling before. im fine now not suicidle or nothing

4) Trying to deal with the shame of ****ing up in front of your parents and trying to prove to them that you're not a ****-up. my mum never thought i was a ****-up

[FLOMOUSLY]

Alright Paul, sounds good. Have you thought about further education or that doesn't sound too appealing to you?

[loginptsa]

been there done it got the t-shirt i have a degree in sport and recreation

but sadly nothing like that round here for work

[FLOMOUSLY]

been there done it got the t-shirt i have a degree in sport and recreation

but sadly nothing like that round here for work

What? I am not sure if you're being serious beause that degree, sounds to me, you can earn at recess. What does that degree teach you, how to manage gyms?

[loginptsa]

What? I am not sure if you're being serious beause that degree, sounds to me, you can earn at recess. What does that degree teach you, how to manage gyms?

yep gyms, leisurre centres, spa's etc

portsmouth is mostly reatail and warehouse work

i worked in a d.i.y store for like 2 years

[FLOMOUSLY]

Find out if this is your son. If not, take your girl and get the **** out of there. Go to like... Australia, USA, or Bosnia.

[loginptsa]

wtf why should i leave the country ???

[FLOMOUSLY]

I believe in changing your locations totally couple of times in your life. Different country, different people, culture, helps brings perspective on your life and life in general, making you stronger, more mature and ready for anything. Moving to a different country and surviving that drastic change of lifestyle is what is going to bring all your ideas about life, people, money, business together for a stronger person. Who knows, maybe you move to a different place and you see, because of your larger worldly perspective, that this country is missing something that you had at home, like businesses of sorts. I don't know, I am rambling .... I just think it's necessary for people to do something like that, and of you want to make it even more exciting move to a country where they don't speak your language!

[loginptsa]

i love england i would NEVER move even if i won the lottery

i'd just like go on holiday once a month lol

[elektikaka]

I'm going out on a limb here Paul, but do you suffer from Aspergers Syndrome?

[FLOMOUSLY]

I'm going out on a limb here Paul, but do you suffer from Aspergers Syndrome?

heh, I think that's going a little too far. Although I do see where you get that from.

[elektikaka]

heh, I think that's going a little too far. Although I do see where you get that from.

This wasn't meant to be sarcasm at all, it was a genuine question.

[loginptsa]

I'm going out on a limb here Paul, but do you suffer from Aspergers Syndrome?

whats that

[FLOMOUSLY]

This wasn't meant to be sarcasm at all, it was a genuine question.

AS occurs 3/10,000 people. Even then it's really hard to diagnose. And just based on what the fella said over the internet, asking him if he has a diagnosed neurological disorder that is really hard to pinpoint, is kind of insulting.

[loginptsa]

but what actually is it

[FLOMOUSLY]

Search it on Google or something. Man I need to go get balishag, I am dying over here and it's going to be a long morning.

[ebBPxIai]

but what actually is it

A kind of Autism characterised by difficulties in social interaction. However, it cannot be diagnosed by social problems alone, but a series of characteristics such as narrow but intense interests and fixed routines etc.

I can't really say you've said anything that would indicate you might have Asberger's myself...