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11-28-2006, 10:52 PM
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 I got arrested last night
Yesterday was not nood lol
Things got on top at work so i hit the nearest bar and drank myself stupid wife phoned and asked where are you and i said getting drunk because your a cheating bi'tch followed by a bit more verbal abuse and switched my phone off and continued binging She got worried about me being in that state and phoned the police , when i got back home i didn't bother talking to her ...just flopped out on the sofa bit later i was woke up with two police standing over me telling me i cant stay here tonight you have to stay somewhere else untill i sober up Obviously i told them to feck off so they took me away 
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11-28-2006, 10:56 PM
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Sorry to hear about that Markus.
Just a thought. Maybe staying for the kids sake is NOT always the best idea? If its eating you up that bad, leave, go be happy for you and in turn your kids will be too. This can't make for a happy home. You and they both have the right to be happy. You only have one life, live it! |
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11-28-2006, 11:33 PM
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11-29-2006, 12:29 AM
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11-29-2006, 01:48 AM
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Since when is being drunk in your home a crime????? What country is do you live in????
What a minute what did she tell the police?? YOu didnt smack her around did you???? Or threaten her??........ ________ Simca Ariane |
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11-29-2006, 02:10 AM
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had to be something your wifey deary told them. Or they wouldnt have bothered waking you up.
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11-29-2006, 05:08 AM
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11-29-2006, 05:09 AM
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11-29-2006, 05:33 AM
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The police said you couldn't stay there, so they arrested you. Why didn't they let you call someone to take you to a hotel or a friends house? Something doesn't sound right. What were their grounds for your arrest? If you were passed out in your own house. Thats your domain. Now if it was the street in front of the house or yard, that's public intoxication. They can arrest for that. DO tell the rest of the story markus, we're all concerned whether or not you were railroaded.
Anyway, Hope today goes better for you. You need to stop the bingin with alcohol, try chocolate. That's what I switched too years ago. They even say that you get the same endorfins from chocolate that you get from sex. So I totally bought more chocolate. Take care of yourself Crissy |
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11-29-2006, 09:20 AM
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No i didn't threaten to harm her , just a bit of abuse on the phone
the police came to see her and told them its best if i stay somehwere else when i get back - when i got back home i just crashed out on the sofa didn't say a word to anyone she was upstairs and must have phoned them They gave me the option of staying at friends house or a hotel and i refused i said im sleeping here , i pay the mortgage .... take the ***** instead Anyway eventually they took me and when i told them what she had done they were ok with me they offered me the option again of staying at friends so i took it i went to stay with a friend
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11-29-2006, 05:55 PM
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YOu see this kind of **** makes my blood boil, a good guy married iwth kids, wife cheats, man loses rights to his home, kids and family. These western countries are sending there alienated fatherless youth to the toilet.
Big deal if you called her a couple of names on the phone its the least you can do for her being a ****. Crap she should be thankful that you were even willing to take her back. WTF? kind of trahs is she. Hey markus print my post and show it to the snake of your wife (no offense) Dude I guarantee if you do not leave this woman this iwll not be the first run in you have with authorities. Now she feels she has power becuase the pussified 5-0 came in on her side. Property rights?? What the hell??? ________ Ipad Cases |
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11-29-2006, 07:03 PM
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11-29-2006, 07:47 PM
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Ive realised lately that its not going to work , staying for the children is not a realistic possibility ... thats whats been getting me down
Ive been trying to hold onto something thats destroyed Theres no way to forgive a person thats betrayed you for over two years i havn't got an ounce of respect for her anymore so god knows how it can be worked out Theres just no excuse for her doing this to our family and she'd still be at it if i didn't find out so whats the point ? I converted the loft in the summer so im staying up there untill after xmas
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11-29-2006, 08:15 PM
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11-29-2006, 08:24 PM
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Nobody will blame you if you have tried but you couldn't go further with this marriage. Sad is that those feelings of geolousie and all the pain comes from one true feeling : love .
Somebody who dosen't give a **** is somebody who don't care . It is like a knife injured . Even if healing the scarface will remain all the life . True is you will never forget and you will never forgive . 
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11-30-2006, 01:46 AM
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I think your on the right track Markus. I lived with mine close to 10 years. Looking back it was a mistake for me and the kids.
You showed your courage trying for the kids sake. I do agree she feels one up on ya with the law. Most laws concerning family violence do not give the cops disgression in what to do. The Woman can lie and only has to say she was threatened or feels threatened, Most cops don't want to get sued by a violence victim, or get reprimanded for not taking an action. You will have to be very careful from now on. Good luck.
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12-13-2006, 04:26 AM
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12-13-2006, 03:03 PM
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12-13-2006, 04:41 PM
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Firstly, in the UK it is not an offense to be drunk in your own home.
A few years ago, if a women called the police because they felt threatened by their partner or in fear of their safety, if this was occurring in the family home this was viewed as a "domestic", and under UK law they were unable to intervene.. This basically meant that even if the husband was a known women beater, the police could not get involved.. Obviously, for a lot of women this sucked and after there were examples of women in the end being beaten to death, the police came came under a lot of heavy criticism.. They now have a lot more power to get involved, but in the first instance they will try and negotiate a "peaceful" resolution by removing the husband from the home until he has sobered up and calmed down.. Unfortunately, this can be abused which it has been in Markus's case.. His wife only need have rang the police and said "My husband has rang me drunk, and has been verbally abusive. I have 2 young children in the house and fear for our safety when he comes home.." Then regardless of the fact that the accused husband has no past record of violence, the police will attempt to diffuse any possible conflict.. They do this to cover their own ass as they can't afford to take the chance of anything happening if they ignore the situation.. Markus wasnt arrested.. he was asked to find somewhere else to bed down for the nite.. which kindof sucks cause it would never have happened if his wife hadnt bedded down elsewhere in the first place just wanted to clarify the way things work over here 
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12-13-2006, 05:44 PM
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Only ask polite to find another place to slep than your own home?
OK. the police must to pay the bills than. |
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