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Old 09-11-2006, 03:32 PM   #1
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Default What's you opinion - mates ex's/flings
Whats your opinion in these situations? all green to go or out of bounds?

- Your mates ex girlfriend? Can/should you go there if your mate has had a serious relationship with the girl?

- What about a mates fling? Can/should you go for a girl whom your mate has simply hooked up with and had a 'no feelings fling' with?

- What about a girl whom your mate is currently keeping on the side as a casual fling? Can/should you go for it? Theres likely to be no feelings there but your mate is currently already hooking up?

Are there exceptions in each case? Or is it just a no go 100% of the time?
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Old 09-11-2006, 04:27 PM   #2
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Whats your opinion in these situations? all green to go or out of bounds?

- Your mates ex girlfriend? Can/should you go there if your mate has had a serious relationship with the girl?

- What about a mates fling? Can/should you go for a girl whom your mate has simply hooked up with and had a 'no feelings fling' with?

- What about a girl whom your mate is currently keeping on the side as a casual fling? Can/should you go for it? Theres likely to be no feelings there but your mate is currently already hooking up?

Are there exceptions in each case? Or is it just a no go 100% of the time?
If it was only a fling then its totally OK otherwise definitely not. Make sure that your mate thought it was just a fling. He may be still really into her even if they only dated for a short while.

Either way I personally couldn't do it. I just think the sex would be too awkward. For the entire 3 minutes she will be comparing your c0ck to his in her mind and I think that would drive my the flaccidness....
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Old 09-11-2006, 04:55 PM   #3
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either way go for it, you only live once.

although if it's someone your mate has had feelings for speak to him first and/or give it a bit of time.
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Old 09-11-2006, 08:18 PM   #4
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Friends come and go, but good mastabatory material sticks in the mind forever.
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Old 09-11-2006, 08:38 PM   #5
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It will affect your the friendship. If you don't care about that, do what you want. If you value your friendship, you should respect him.

If you unsure how he feels, ask him.
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Old 09-11-2006, 08:40 PM   #6
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Friends come and go, but good mastabatory material sticks in the mind forever.
Hahaha.
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Old 09-11-2006, 08:53 PM   #7
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no

yes

no

my response to the 3 questions in order
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Old 09-11-2006, 11:56 PM   #8
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Whats your opinion in these situations? all green to go or out of bounds?

- Your mates ex girlfriend? Can/should you go there if your mate has had a serious relationship with the girl?
No way. Never. Very akward and could ruin your friendship. You can never really feel normal around the both of them afterwards. Big no-no.
- What about a mates fling? Can/should you go for a girl whom your mate has simply hooked up with and had a 'no feelings fling' with? Even this I find a tad odd. I wouldn't really go after the girl here either. Depends on what kind of friendship you have. It would still be a little strange. It wouldn't have very severe consequences in most cases, but it would be a little funny.
- What about a girl whom your mate is currently keeping on the side as a casual fling? Can/should you go for it? Theres likely to be no feelings there but your mate is currently already hooking up? No way, this is a low move on your side to be honest. I probably wouldn't go for it even if your friend fails on the hunt. He'd probably be agitated by your presence if you got anywhere with her.

Are there exceptions in each case? Or is it just a no go 100% of the time? In the case of a small fling or one night stand there might be a little hope of you hooking up with the girl and not having much to deal with afterwards. This is if you and your mate have the right kind of friendship.
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Old 09-11-2006, 11:57 PM   #9
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I'd say just some common sense here. If it's someone who your friend still cares for/went through a bad breakup with/broke your friends heart. Then you probably shouldn't do it. If it's someone who your friend doesn't have feelings for and if your friend isn't a jealous person then go for it.

You could always try asking your friend if it would hurt his/her feelings as well. If they don't care why should you?
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