[TiepayWrary]

I had to think on this for a while, because I am most certainly one of those people that lets others overstep boundaries all the time. Its often difficult for me to see where exactly I should draw the line.
But I think I am slowly getting a bit better at it. I`m going to observe what exactly I do when people overstep boundaries, to understand it better.
I think I usually do not notice it because I`m so busy being unsure, nervous, polite and trying to be good enough. And then later on, when I go home or sit on the couch in the evening.. then the frustration suddenly comes up.

So it seems my first instinct is to push questions/feelings about 'is it ok that he/she does this?' away completely, and then later that day or week they come up again.