My feeling with stuff like this is if you are putting it up publicly on sites like YouTube for years, you really have no right whatsoever to complain about invasion of privacy when someone figures out it is you. This is a lot different from someone hacking into your computer, or stealing personal video from your home. This is putting it out there to the public, to solicit other people to join you, as well as to arouse others, and probably to satisfy some personal exhibitionist thing. There's a real simple way to avoid a situation like this - don't film yourself in this position and then post it on public web sites. Or if you do, be prepared to face and address the consequences when you are busted.