[Finanziamento]

Sorry I haven't been around much lately. Kind of lost my login info. But, I'm here now!

Just a quick update. My dh announced on my birthday that our relationship isn't that important to him and that his "friendship" with a fostermom (who's married) is more important to him. Now, this is a man who as an ex-felon with a murder conviction can't get employment, so I've been supporting him for 13 years. This fostermom has given him money, fish tanks and a car. She fills up his gas tank weekly for him. (Do we see a pattern here?) Needless to say, I think he saw the next rung in the ladder for himself.

Because he has no job and no money he has elected to move out (with my encouragement) with a friend who has two maltese. Because of this Jake can't go with him. Quite frankly I don't think he would take proper care of Jake anyway, so I have agreed to keep him until this idiot somehow manages to get to a place where Jake can go.

Jake was recently bit by a spider, which it turns out he is highly alergic to, and we almost lost him, so I am having to watch him pretty closely and make sure I keep the right meds on hand. This is one reason I am glad that Jake had to stay with me.

The first few days where kind of tough on Jake, but he's settling into the new routine of no one being there to let him out whenever he wants. He doesn't seem to miss dad at all, until the idiot shows up unannounced says hi and throws the dogs out in the backyard. He then disappears without spending any time with Jake. This has obviously caused a some distress for my poor boy, but I think in time he will probably forget all about dad. What are your thoughts on this? We are still in the "Get your shit outta my house stage" so it seems every couple of days he pulls this stuff.

I will be glad when all of his stuff is gone and he has no reason to come by and do this to Jake and me.

Sorry so long, but just wanted to give those of you who care and idea of what is going on here in Indy.