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**bashansasasasa** · 01-06-2011, 03:27 AM

Hi Kraft:

Yes. You got it exactly right: It`s so damn hard. When I formally ended the relationship, I wasn't ready for it to be over. Another poster (SIS) described her process as one where she PULLED herself away from her ex. That fits my situation also. I was literally PULLING myself away from him. And every pull hurt...and, at the same time, every pull (though painful) was a victory.

I"m not sure what you will ultimately do, Kraft. There's no one answer. It's just very important that you honour yourself. YOu can't live in a situation of perpetual pain. Given that your wife cheated on you on your birthday, she should understand the tremendous pain your birthday signifies - the day is so tarnished. She should understand and, further, feel its tarnish personally and painfully.

I"m thinking of you,

KitKat

01-06-2011, 03:27 AM	#2
bashansasasasa Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 702 Senior Member	Hi Kraft: Yes. You got it exactly right: It`s so damn hard. When I formally ended the relationship, I wasn't ready for it to be over. Another poster (SIS) described her process as one where she PULLED herself away from her ex. That fits my situation also. I was literally PULLING myself away from him. And every pull hurt...and, at the same time, every pull (though painful) was a victory. I"m not sure what you will ultimately do, Kraft. There's no one answer. It's just very important that you honour yourself. YOu can't live in a situation of perpetual pain. Given that your wife cheated on you on your birthday, she should understand the tremendous pain your birthday signifies - the day is so tarnished. She should understand and, further, feel its tarnish personally and painfully. I"m thinking of you, KitKat
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