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Any tips or advice one this? Do I try to catch them in the act?

I thought if I could it would make it easier but if I try and fail (go there and she is there but he isn't) it may make all of my evidence mute.
I have alot of evidence that I got being sneaky (hacked email and phone)
Do I expose that?

She is now clearing all of here logs and sent messages as well as email trash.

I really want this to end I find myself fully absorbed by it and need to move on but I am stuck... Don't know how to confront.

Our communicaion has never been great beacause I am a non confrontaional type person.

ANy gelp apprecited I am stuck in Hell