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**HelenTay** · 02-11-2009, 07:47 AM

Personally, I'd forgive her. Life is hard and people make mistakes. She will have to live with this one and holding it against here is no good for you or her. However, it would still be time to move on. You can not build a relationship based on this kind of deception and lack of respect. Nowhere does it say you can not forgive her and still move on. It's going to be a life lesson for both of you and hopefully you'll both come away better people for it.

Good luck!

Then why do it in the first place?... obviously she did not think this way when she cheated so he might as well go and find someone who does realise what a relationship should be built on. Also, the OP said it was a repeat offesne which was forgiven once, but this is too far in my opinion. Besides, and the OP is right... it is one thing to forgive, but how easy is it to get over when you have yo bring up a child that is a remind of your partner's unfaithfulness?

02-11-2009, 07:47 AM	#3
HelenTay Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 402 Senior Member	Personally, I'd forgive her. Life is hard and people make mistakes. She will have to live with this one and holding it against here is no good for you or her. However, it would still be time to move on. You can not build a relationship based on this kind of deception and lack of respect. Nowhere does it say you can not forgive her and still move on. It's going to be a life lesson for both of you and hopefully you'll both come away better people for it. Good luck! Then why do it in the first place?... obviously she did not think this way when she cheated so he might as well go and find someone who does realise what a relationship should be built on. Also, the OP said it was a repeat offesne which was forgiven once, but this is too far in my opinion. Besides, and the OP is right... it is one thing to forgive, but how easy is it to get over when you have yo bring up a child that is a remind of your partner's unfaithfulness?
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