[ZesePreodaNed]

Here's where a girl's opinion comes to the rescue. [thumbup]

First of all, i would never (and i mean NEVER) talk to a guy on the phone for two hours if i didn't like him. Of course, that could just be me, because i hate the phone. But...the fact that she asked you to go to the movies with her says something. If it was just a movie that she really wanted to see with a friend, she could have just asked one of her girlfriends to go. However, the fact that she's being so off and on says that she's not quite sure what she wants. Maybe one day she thinks she really wants to see where it goes, and the next she changes her mind. Who knows? Is she talking to or dating anyone else that you know of? As much as i hate to say it..she could be talking more to you when she's mad at him, and talking to you less when things are going ok. If there's no one else, then it sounds like she's just not ready to make any commitments. Look at it this way....if she talks to you for hours, goes out with you to the movies...she's obviously investing a lot of her time on you. There's obviously something she likes about you. It's very respectful that you were straight-forward and asked her what's going on. A lot of people wouldn't have the balls to do that. At this point though, i would drop it and see what happens. Don't waste your time worrying about it, and definitely don't miss out on other things because of her. If you want to date other people, do it...actually, i'd suggest it. You'll either end up finding someone who knows what they want, or this other girl will see that she needs to make up her mind.

Best of luck!