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**xIuvyAuT** · 05-12-2012, 08:21 AM

Assalaamu 'alaykum

alhamdulillah i strive in different levels not to masterba** and watch p*rn but one thing that puts me of from completly striving my hardest is this thought that -
when i will get married inshallah(if allah wills) i will completely stop masterbating and doing zina with eyes, ears etc and then allah will forgive me. With this thought in my mind i do not strive hard enough.
can someone plz reply to this and make me change my mind and help me to realise i have to strive and stop completly right now and not wait when i get married (if allah wills) and try my hardest then since allah is oft forgiving and will forgive any sins (except shirk) and this puts me of from trying harder and stopping plz reply.

also im just 16, cant marry right now tooooo shy and schools in the way and sorry for writing again but also my mind changes, when i dont feel sexualy aroused i still feel like getting pleasure since i get bored and then cant remain patient.

whenever sometimes i get abit of feeling for zina with eyes especially i dont try hard enough to stop.
jazakallah khair( may allah reward you)

Porn is addictive

Masturbation is also addictive

Give them up or you will probably find they continue into your married life (with new excuses).

Those who look at porn look at hundreds of women - this can only train them for adultery not save them from it. Also it trains them to look at all women as sex objects - porn addicts are often the men you see on buses who are looking at strange women in a bad way - porn teaches you to look at women and prepares your mind for zina, don't listen to satanic whisperings that tell you that it is beneficial.

Give up porn right now, it is one of Iblees' biggest tricks in his campaign to get you into hellfire

Masturbation is better than zina, but do you really need to masturbate to avoid zina? - if you stop masturbating and you are still full of lust then your nafs will probably disperse it through wet dreams - something you will not be punished for in hereafter. If you cannot fast to reduce your lusts then try jogging it is a good way to burn off the excess of energy that you seem to have and to help you sleep without these problems coming into your mind.

Get married as soon as you can if you are full of sexual hunger. Your soul is more important than your education.

05-12-2012, 08:21 AM	#12
xIuvyAuT Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 550 Senior Member	Assalaamu 'alaykum alhamdulillah i strive in different levels not to masterba** and watch p*rn but one thing that puts me of from completly striving my hardest is this thought that - when i will get married inshallah(if allah wills) i will completely stop masterbating and doing zina with eyes, ears etc and then allah will forgive me. With this thought in my mind i do not strive hard enough. can someone plz reply to this and make me change my mind and help me to realise i have to strive and stop completly right now and not wait when i get married (if allah wills) and try my hardest then since allah is oft forgiving and will forgive any sins (except shirk) and this puts me of from trying harder and stopping plz reply. also im just 16, cant marry right now tooooo shy and schools in the way and sorry for writing again but also my mind changes, when i dont feel sexualy aroused i still feel like getting pleasure since i get bored and then cant remain patient. whenever sometimes i get abit of feeling for zina with eyes especially i dont try hard enough to stop. jazakallah khair( may allah reward you) Porn is addictive Masturbation is also addictive Give them up or you will probably find they continue into your married life (with new excuses). Those who look at porn look at hundreds of women - this can only train them for adultery not save them from it. Also it trains them to look at all women as sex objects - porn addicts are often the men you see on buses who are looking at strange women in a bad way - porn teaches you to look at women and prepares your mind for zina, don't listen to satanic whisperings that tell you that it is beneficial. Give up porn right now, it is one of Iblees' biggest tricks in his campaign to get you into hellfire Masturbation is better than zina, but do you really need to masturbate to avoid zina? - if you stop masturbating and you are still full of lust then your nafs will probably disperse it through wet dreams - something you will not be punished for in hereafter. If you cannot fast to reduce your lusts then try jogging it is a good way to burn off the excess of energy that you seem to have and to help you sleep without these problems coming into your mind. Get married as soon as you can if you are full of sexual hunger. Your soul is more important than your education.
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