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is it ok to be nationalist in islam for strange reason i always am proud of my counry and when i see things on the new for example if lets say some country would be steeling oil or land from my country (make a good guess what it is) i would get angry or if theres a divisions i would get sad. I love it to the extent where i would die for it. any way is it good to feel this way. if not how can i not be this extream?

Iraq right now is ruled by evil Zanadiqah (i.e. Rafidhah), who have been installed by America (which means that the whole government are traitors!).
Half of the country are extreme Shi'ah, who hate those whom Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is pleased with (i.e. the Sahabah (radhiallahu 'anhum)) and they commit shirk every day and they're upon a religion which has nothing to do with Islam.
And the new Iraqi Army/Police are the most inhuman people upon this earth and they're either Zanadiqah or apostates!
So I hope you're not proud of them.

And that's why the only ones I love in Iraq are the truthful muslims (no matter whether they're Arabs, Kurds or Turkmens).

and when i see things on the new for example if lets say some country would be steeling oil or land from my country (make a good guess what it is) i would get angry

Brother, the Iraqi people don't get the oil! Nuri al-Maliki - qatalahullah - and all the other politicians get the oil!
So it really does not make any difference whether they steal our oil or whether another country steals it!

I love it to the extent where i would die for it.

One shouldn't want to die for anything except for the sake of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, because it's Allah ta'ala who gave us this life and not a country!
And how could one die for Iraq right now? By joining the Army? Then this surely would be Riddah (apostasy) from Islam!
But if it means to protect the muslims in Iraq, then it's a good thing, but the Niyyah should be not to fight for the sake of a country, but to fight for the pleasure of Allah 'azza wa jal.