Yep, I always call him either my hubs or hubby. I never refer to him as my husband.... My mom taught me to cook when I was a kid, so I've known how to bake bread, cook a turkey etc. for more decades than I care to count. And I'm sorry you are having trouble with your hands. But you're right.............when wielding a knife around in the air, you'd better have great sensations in your body parts. Why do you have a delayed reaction to heat or lacking in those vital sensations that we all need?