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**putza** · 11-06-2011, 03:17 AM

Thank you so much for reading my post and replying back.....might be ur right that i am trying to keep myself stuck in this situation and worrying more about my marriage rather being a good muslim.....i am working on myself to get out of this because there is lot more to do in this world rather just running after that guy.....
do remember me in ur prayers.......

Sister Shaitan will create anxiety in you, he wants people to panic, on the thought of marriage, money, business, etc. Dont fall into anxiety, cause thats when he tries to make you hurt yourself. Get out of this anxiety of marriage. Marriage happens when Allah wills, jsut concentrate on your duty towards Allah and your family, and Allah will surely provide you with the Rizq he has written for you. Just dont let this anxiety of future get on you, that "Ohh what will happen to me, who will marry me, how will that happen , this happen"...forget all that, just start doing the right things and you will see how situations will change in your life.

In Quran Allah has stated in a place that we do not change the condition of the people untill they change what is within themselves. So change the way you think, change the things you think about. for you to think about that boy , his love is also haram. Change your lifestyle according to the wish of Allah, and then see the promise of Allah comming.

And if ever you again start to feel anxiety about this whole marriage thought and your sin then Read. La Hawla wala Quwata illah Billah . Read a tasbih of this with the meanings of this in your mind, and then see how tranquility will descend on your heart, but make sure you dont do other sin, and follow shariah as much as you can . Masalam.

11-06-2011, 03:17 AM	#9
putza Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 383 Senior Member	Thank you so much for reading my post and replying back.....might be ur right that i am trying to keep myself stuck in this situation and worrying more about my marriage rather being a good muslim.....i am working on myself to get out of this because there is lot more to do in this world rather just running after that guy..... do remember me in ur prayers....... Sister Shaitan will create anxiety in you, he wants people to panic, on the thought of marriage, money, business, etc. Dont fall into anxiety, cause thats when he tries to make you hurt yourself. Get out of this anxiety of marriage. Marriage happens when Allah wills, jsut concentrate on your duty towards Allah and your family, and Allah will surely provide you with the Rizq he has written for you. Just dont let this anxiety of future get on you, that "Ohh what will happen to me, who will marry me, how will that happen , this happen"...forget all that, just start doing the right things and you will see how situations will change in your life. In Quran Allah has stated in a place that we do not change the condition of the people untill they change what is within themselves. So change the way you think, change the things you think about. for you to think about that boy , his love is also haram. Change your lifestyle according to the wish of Allah, and then see the promise of Allah comming. And if ever you again start to feel anxiety about this whole marriage thought and your sin then Read. La Hawla wala Quwata illah Billah . Read a tasbih of this with the meanings of this in your mind, and then see how tranquility will descend on your heart, but make sure you dont do other sin, and follow shariah as much as you can . Masalam.
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