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**fectsnanteemy** · 10-30-2011, 06:20 PM

Salams,

Well, I understand this...but, is it allowed to hit her (my sister, if she's physically threatening me)? It's like that's the only way, I'd ever have her respect (which sucks...but I'm not gonna be some afterworldly wimp)...

Wa Salam,

Tempest Desh

EDIT: Just realized that I'm surrounded by psychos...no wonder I've had trouble dealing with women...it's like dealing with my sister and mom have ingrained this sort of a reaction in me...Don't ever want to act wrongly on these impulses...

I dont think hitting her would be the answer as it would just make matters worse and then what kind of picture would that portray of Islam? Personally I feel that nothing gets better results than kindness and talking gently and explaining. Maybe you could ask her if you can both can spend time and talk things over so you can both have a good brother/sister relationship. No harm in trying....may Allah make your way easy

10-30-2011, 06:20 PM	#4
fectsnanteemy Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 430 Senior Member	Salams, Well, I understand this...but, is it allowed to hit her (my sister, if she's physically threatening me)? It's like that's the only way, I'd ever have her respect (which sucks...but I'm not gonna be some afterworldly wimp)... Wa Salam, Tempest Desh EDIT: Just realized that I'm surrounded by psychos...no wonder I've had trouble dealing with women...it's like dealing with my sister and mom have ingrained this sort of a reaction in me...Don't ever want to act wrongly on these impulses... I dont think hitting her would be the answer as it would just make matters worse and then what kind of picture would that portray of Islam? Personally I feel that nothing gets better results than kindness and talking gently and explaining. Maybe you could ask her if you can both can spend time and talk things over so you can both have a good brother/sister relationship. No harm in trying....may Allah make your way easy
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