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But which route should i take? Which seems to be the most logical and islamically correct?

I shall say the route you shouldn't take, never become a rebel and ditch your parents and go away from home, which is extreme.

I m sure you don't have the above in mind, but in the fit of anger we do some dumb stuff.

As for the career part. Let things calm down a bit. Try to talk to your parents what your plans are. If they completely disagree just do what they say. If you have your parents duas you will have barakah in your life, no doubt. Even the small things in your life will satisfy your huge needs.