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**23tommy** · 09-07-2011, 02:50 PM

Bismillah

You should always pray istikhara and rely on Allah SWT.
If you have a spiritual guide, you can seek his help and go with his decision without thinking too much.
One advise from elder sister of this forum. When we see three things, we should just go for it after praying istikhara
1) the person is deeni
2) you like him
3) parents approve
We should not think too much lest shaitan takes over our mind and keeps confusing leaving us distressed. So just go with the decision of someone whom you trust if you cant decide on yourself after praying to Allah SWT and just rely on Allah SWT that there will be khair in it. Also continuous making duas that your marriage be filled with piety and pray for afiyah in both the worlds. Allahu alam
I hope someone can advise you better.
wassalam

JzaKALLAH sister that's really helpful. I know that satan is playing mind games with me and that's what makes me so frustrated. I do pray a lot as well. Maybe I should let quraan read on me? Some people tell me that one of the guys I turned down might have put a spell on me.

Btw Sis just out of curiosity, I have promised to donate a lump sum to a local mosque last Ramadan. And the imaan prayed for me that I find a odious husband. However I still didn't get around to pay the money. Could that be a reason why Allah is punishing me now for this?

09-07-2011, 02:50 PM	#9
23tommy Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 393 Senior Member	Bismillah You should always pray istikhara and rely on Allah SWT. If you have a spiritual guide, you can seek his help and go with his decision without thinking too much. One advise from elder sister of this forum. When we see three things, we should just go for it after praying istikhara 1) the person is deeni 2) you like him 3) parents approve We should not think too much lest shaitan takes over our mind and keeps confusing leaving us distressed. So just go with the decision of someone whom you trust if you cant decide on yourself after praying to Allah SWT and just rely on Allah SWT that there will be khair in it. Also continuous making duas that your marriage be filled with piety and pray for afiyah in both the worlds. Allahu alam I hope someone can advise you better. wassalam JzaKALLAH sister that's really helpful. I know that satan is playing mind games with me and that's what makes me so frustrated. I do pray a lot as well. Maybe I should let quraan read on me? Some people tell me that one of the guys I turned down might have put a spell on me. Btw Sis just out of curiosity, I have promised to donate a lump sum to a local mosque last Ramadan. And the imaan prayed for me that I find a odious husband. However I still didn't get around to pay the money. Could that be a reason why Allah is punishing me now for this?
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