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Old 09-07-2011, 07:48 PM   #20
23tommy

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Interracial marriages are not doomed to fail.

If we Muslims, destroy our Idols - Nationalism, Culture, Society - our lives will become much more peaceful.

To be more specific, if we accept interracial marriages, if we accept Ta'addud, if we accept marrying widows and divorcees (and don't see it as a curse), if we accept marrying older women.. If we accept all this WHOLE HEARTEDLY, the problems related to marriages will eradicate insha'Allah and our SISTERS will stop worrying about spending their lives alone (or with kids if widows and divorced)..

Secondly, most of us Pakistanis find Somalians very nice people. I lived with somalians in Pakistan. They are very nice,loyal, hard working and have many more qualities.

So If a Pakistani wants to marry a Somali girl, her father should not refuse because:

1) He really wants to marry her otherwise he wouldn't go against his own culture of NOT marrying outside
2) He will give her alot of respect!

That's all I have to say regarding this topic!

فاعتبروا يا اولي الابصار
Again in an ideal world that would be the case. But as sad as it seems we don't live in an ideal world. My cousin wanted to marry an Arab guy but both families refused to acknowledge the marriage, so there's nothing left but to decide between family or guy/girl. Any reasonable person would go for the family even if they family is in the wrong.
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