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**E4qC1qQ5** · 05-07-2011, 10:55 AM

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Bismillahi
Muslims condition is so worst that they don't even mention the name of that shahzada (rahimahullah) with boldness and pride even on a platform with deeni ulema and shuyook. Jab musalmanonka ye battareen haalat hai, it is obvious with other things. I think the questioner was in a firm belief that a second wife could solve a problem while the second wife too is a human who will come with her shortcomings and she is not a hoor of jannah. So may be the Mufti (hafizahullah) wants to bring him out of his assumptions and show him the reality of what it is and so asking him to have sabr with the wife he had. Allahu alam what other hikmat he has. I did see in the same askimam website about giving the option of second marriage when advising and so it all depends on the mindset of the questioner they consider and answer. When it important to stress on sabr, they stress that and if it is important to stress on other things, they stress on that. Also not this brave shahzaada, even the slaves of dollars of his mother land enter polygamy and that doesn't just excel them and it all depends on the mindset and commitment to deen for people differ. Allahu alam.
Wassalam

05-07-2011, 10:55 AM	#17
E4qC1qQ5 Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 495 Senior Member	.... Bismillahi Muslims condition is so worst that they don't even mention the name of that shahzada (rahimahullah) with boldness and pride even on a platform with deeni ulema and shuyook. Jab musalmanonka ye battareen haalat hai, it is obvious with other things. I think the questioner was in a firm belief that a second wife could solve a problem while the second wife too is a human who will come with her shortcomings and she is not a hoor of jannah. So may be the Mufti (hafizahullah) wants to bring him out of his assumptions and show him the reality of what it is and so asking him to have sabr with the wife he had. Allahu alam what other hikmat he has. I did see in the same askimam website about giving the option of second marriage when advising and so it all depends on the mindset of the questioner they consider and answer. When it important to stress on sabr, they stress that and if it is important to stress on other things, they stress on that. Also not this brave shahzaada, even the slaves of dollars of his mother land enter polygamy and that doesn't just excel them and it all depends on the mindset and commitment to deen for people differ. Allahu alam. Wassalam
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