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**Erossycuc** · 02-27-2009, 06:56 PM

I am not really interseted in picking girls up, so a whole lot of those aren't interesting to me. Maybe if I was striking out a lot, they would be.

My general issue is with meeting girls, both in general and of the sort I find interesting. For the most part, my friends don't introduce me to women. And also, to be honest, but despite the fact that they are my friends and I love them, based on their tastes I doubt if I would find the women they introduce me to to be that interesting.

Also, I think that women that I am interested in is a pretty rare thing. I mostly interested in the active (phsyically), intellectual (which is different from intelligent), driven (positive goals and working towards them), cultured (art, music, etc.. I really don't like Jerry Springer), religious (serious about it) type.

JM

Maybe think about using the interweb, there are lots of dating sites out there, you'd have to do some research about which one was right for you. But there's some merit in starting a conversation with a woman on the basis that you are on a dating site and looking for a relationship. Plus you can get to know each other a bit. Also, you might be surprised that you get on better with women who you don't think you'd get on with better than you think you would.

I would say the only downside with online dating is relationships can seem much deeper than they would if you'd met face to face, so if you like someone consider seeing them soon. Plus you can't tell if you'll actually fancy someone in the flesh.

Blaupanzer's tip about churches isn't a bad one.

Anyway, make it known to people that you are after a relationship and you'll be surprised how much people like matchmaking.

02-27-2009, 06:56 PM	#6
Erossycuc Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 388 Senior Member	I am not really interseted in picking girls up, so a whole lot of those aren't interesting to me. Maybe if I was striking out a lot, they would be. My general issue is with meeting girls, both in general and of the sort I find interesting. For the most part, my friends don't introduce me to women. And also, to be honest, but despite the fact that they are my friends and I love them, based on their tastes I doubt if I would find the women they introduce me to to be that interesting. Also, I think that women that I am interested in is a pretty rare thing. I mostly interested in the active (phsyically), intellectual (which is different from intelligent), driven (positive goals and working towards them), cultured (art, music, etc.. I really don't like Jerry Springer), religious (serious about it) type. JM Maybe think about using the interweb, there are lots of dating sites out there, you'd have to do some research about which one was right for you. But there's some merit in starting a conversation with a woman on the basis that you are on a dating site and looking for a relationship. Plus you can get to know each other a bit. Also, you might be surprised that you get on better with women who you don't think you'd get on with better than you think you would. I would say the only downside with online dating is relationships can seem much deeper than they would if you'd met face to face, so if you like someone consider seeing them soon. Plus you can't tell if you'll actually fancy someone in the flesh. Blaupanzer's tip about churches isn't a bad one. Anyway, make it known to people that you are after a relationship and you'll be surprised how much people like matchmaking.
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