[soineeLom]

Hi
Anyone got any advice on how to find a nice girl who wont treat you badly?
Ive had a girlfriend before and I just want a special someone to settle down with for a while, ive tried match.com, okcupid etc but no luck. Im not an ugly guy (im average) but it seems a lot of girls i know just go for looks in a guy and not personality
No flaming of the sort please people.

Dont really know what else to say..advice?

[beethyday]

You should learn game.

[pavlik]

Although IDK how successful Internet matchmaking sites are, I would suggest that you meet them IRL. It's easier to have a grasp of their true personality that way.

[AnetTeilor]

Possible things to do:

- Have a friend introduce you to a girl. Friends know friends. And those friends might be a good match for you.
- Go clubbing. (Not by yourself though. That's kinda creepy.) It's not the greatest way to meet someone, but it's a place where a lot of different people meet.
- Be yourself. I know that sounds stupid, but being yourself will attract women that want to be around that type of person.


Hope some of this helped.

[cemDrymnVem]

Expanding on Chaos_Blaze's second point, any place where there's a large social convention will do. Try to avoid creepy things like wedding crashing, etc., but feel free to spend some time going places and meeting people. You might find more than you thought you were looking for.

[cwgwowcom]

You could get your friends to hook you up. That's what they do with me so I stay out of trouble.

[poRmawayncmop]

Expanding on Jonny's point, anime conventions are a great place to meet women that like the same things you do. Just don't be creepy about it. Oh, the horror stories I have to share.

[casinobonbone]

I have a friend, no lie, his only game is putting his arm(s) around a girl and hoping for the best.

[mobiphones]

I have a friend, no lie, his only game is putting his arm(s) around a girl and hoping for the best.

The best being she just laughs about it right? Instead of beating the living daylights out of him?

If you're a social person try conventions and extremely social places. If you're antisocial have your friends help you. :X

[HonestSean]

Usually they just get creeped out and walk away. He tends to pout afterwards.

[inownsuipsy]

Expanding on Jonny's point, anime conventions are a great place to meet women that like the same things you do. Just don't be creepy about it. Oh, the horror stories I have to share.

Damn, Temp, bad memories resurfacing...

[Tveabuti]

Okay here are a few points that might work 1. Never go to any place that I go for a drink. NO GOOD WOMEN THERE. 2. A good deed might lead to a digit or something more. As if a woman is at a counter and is confused about something you might know about lend a hand or some advice. 3. Never NEVER meet anyone in a laundry mat or any place like that. Bad karma all around.
4. Unwed mothers are a gold mine. You already have starter family and if you want to buy cards you can its for the kids.

[leangarance]

Swag.

[Jeffery]

they say nice guy finish last. Finding a nice girl or even a girlfriend should be hard enough. You just got to be brave and bold. Have the courage to talk to them. Place like a dance/club might help gl.

[Piemonedmow]

Expanding on Jonny's point, anime conventions are a great place to meet women that like the same things you do. Just don't be creepy about it. Oh, the horror stories I have to share.

This slightly intrigues me.... o.o

OT: Social places or friends. Only way to do it. Or just cross your fingers and hope you run into this amazing girl you dream of. I'm currently trying all three options...and still waiting for positive results. -_- Which reminds me, you best be patient, this stuff doesn't usually happen over night, lol. xD

[encumeterz]

Im going to an anime convention in May. But I dont really know how to approach a girl and what to say etc.

[mirex]

dont listen to these nerds, just be straight forward, invite her to ice-cream or something (the less apparent you make it that you want her, the more she'll want you, trust me)

to approach a girl is kind of easy imo. Just be like "dont take this the wrong way, but you're eyes are very pretty" or some other generic stuff like that.

i have a girlfriend of a year and some months. So I'm not talking out of my ass here lol

[avdddcxnelkaxz]

Don't go to a club, you said you wanted a nice girl.


Be confident, talk to people, talk to anyone even if you don't want to hook up with them - you need the confidence, and even ugly girls have friends.


idk I got my gf of three years by randomly bitching outside my first philosophy tutorial like six years ago, so idk.

CONFIDENCE is key, I'll tell you that much.

[bushomeworkk]

Damn. I don't see how you guys have been in a relationship that long.

[gtyruzzel]

Well how old are you?