[PrareeLor]

Most of you notice that our posts here have fallen to nil here. I keep getting contacted by new members who pm me telling me they can't post. They can send pm's but the board won't allow them to post. I have repeatedly contacted admin about this problem. I get no response from them at all. It seems the site is running on auto. It's sad, this was a good forum.

To all new members, most of us post at infidelity.com as well. If you are not able to post here, go to that site. Most of the senior poster's here are there now.

[PrareeLor]

Still no response from admin.

[PrareeLor]

Still nothing.

[outsitWrord]

i was wondering what was up. i thought noone came on here anymore but me , you & breedmood. hopefully they'll fix things. i hate to see people who need someone to vent to but can't!!

[Wluwsdtn]

It's kinda of crappy that people in need can't access a great site, but butt monkeys like curl up and should die can.

[rorsvierwelia]

Breemood, it's great to see you're still around. You guys were great to help me through one of the most difficult times of my life. Man, do I have an update that I need to share with you all. It's been 9 mos. since my divorce, I'm a new grandma (yes, my grandson is also 9 mos.), school is great along with life in general but here is my dilemma. My Ex did marry the tramp (7 mos after our divorce) (guess, she told the fool that God will punish them for their adulterous behavior). BUT, believe it or not, she will not leave my family alone! My girls have My Space pages where she visits on a regular basis and the kicker is this, she had the audacity to send MY grandchildren gift cards from Wal-Mart but of course, she signed Hubby's name. I do not address her in any form or fashion as I will not stoop to her level but SHE is the primary reason for our divorce and the destruction of our FAMILY. Now she wants to play step-mommie and grand-mommie to my children/grandchildren. Help, can anyone make any sense of this??? I definitely need direction and special coping skills. Thanks to all!

[Wluwsdtn]

I certainly am not the one to advise you on that one. I have had to deal with the ow on the other site that we are on. I am working on my pissy issues and moving forward.

I start school in Jan. Decided to do the double degree thing. Child Pyschology and Education. Maybe if I can help some of them early, they won't turn into cheating,lying butt boils on the @$$ of humanity.

I would say let her try to be step-ho to your family. It doesn't mean that your children don't know who she is and that your grandkids won't find out what she is. Tell her she can never buy her way into respectability, but you and your family will gladly suck her dry of any financial resources she has. Use her anyway that you can. God Bless.

[rorsvierwelia]

Congrats, Breemood! For taking charge of your life and beginning school. I have just completed my first year of court reporting and know that you are making a tremendous leap for your future and the future of the lives you will touch!

As far as the "ho" goes, I thank God daily that she and hubby live in Texas (I'm in Florida). And contact with them is non-existant, he and my oldest have no contact whatsoever and my youngest rarely calls him. Neither of my girls want nothing to do with her. Another glorious aspect of divorce! I did call the bas*ard a couple of days before Xmas to inform him that we are going to be grandparents again! Since he has such "high" expectations of being a "family man", I thought the news of having another grandchild where he will not be a part of their lives would be a relevation. As for myself, I am excited beyond words with another grandchild on the way.

I also know that 99% of her does these things to get under my skin but as I stated in my previous post, I refuse to stoop to her level. But this woman is so devious, I fear my children are in danger of being corrupted by HER!

Well, Breemood and others, I know that the New Year is going to be wonderful and with God on our side, there is no way to fail.

Thanks and God Bless!

[PrareeLor]

I'll keep complaining to them. This was the greatest site for a victim to vent.
I guess we still have infidelity.com. It's great also. If anyone can't post here that have been trying, go to infidelity.com. You can post there. Most of us are there also.

[Wluwsdtn]

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[PrareeLor]

I see some new posts here. I hope admin took care of the problem. I think it was in some of the software used to combat the spam. I'll keep cleaning up the spam and see where this goes. I hope the posting issues are over.