[#[SoftAzerZx]]

Then why do it in the first place?... obviously she did not think this way when she cheated so he might as well go and find someone who does realise what a relationship should be built on. Also, the OP said it was a repeat offesne which was forgiven once, but this is too far in my opinion. Besides, and the OP is right... it is one thing to forgive, but how easy is it to get over when you have yo bring up a child that is a remind of your partner's unfaithfulness?

He didn't say that he should stay with her and raise the child. He said he should move on but forgive her as in not hold a grudge.