[steevytraunse]

right this is no word of a lie.

my parents have a dilemma on their hands I know what I would do in this situation but I will give you guys the low down on the situation.

the parents next door neighbor has 3 teenage girls and one of them is a bit of a tear away.. thing is the family are or the religious type and seem to me to be very "naive and trusting" plus the father is away most of the time.

now down to the nitty gritty my dad found 3 used condoms in the garden today down the side of the house directly below the tear away girls bedroom window also to add to the grossness there was a tampon and applicator also in the vicinity and also some tin foil strips that appear to have burning on them......

there always seem to be boys hanging around the house on weekdays (when the father is away) and the mother to me is not all there to not realize what is going on..

what should my parents do, as this is vile having used condoms and tampons thrown out of a bedroom window into their garden especially when we have our sisters infant children round who like to play in the garden.

should my parents just talk to the girl and get her to get rid of these johnnies and tampons or should they get the parents involved in this because to me burned tinfoil is drug paraphernalia.

I know what I would do I would drag her round here and rub her face in the condoms and tampon(used) in front of her parents so as to totally embarrass her and then find out who her boyfriend is and have a little one on one chat with the fooker.... and finally tell the parents that burned tin foil is use in the preparation of drugs....

but alas Ive been told I am not to get involved by my parents of which I always respect thier opions as I would only end up getting my self in trouble.

well ?

[eskimosik]

You have to be careful with telling parents things, they could be abusive for example, but if you do tell them then of course you would go off your judgement. At least they're having protected sex. You said 'teenage' but I'm guessing you don't know their exact age? How old do the boys seem that are going down? As if there's any worries about it being a child protection issue then you need to bring attention to it ASAP.

Edit - Personally I would try initially just talking to the girls, threaten to take it to their parents if you see it happening again.

[steevytraunse]

You have to be careful with telling parents things, they could be abusive for example, but if you do tell them then of course you would go off your judgement. At least they're having protected sex. You said 'teenage' but I'm guessing you don't know their exact age? How old do the boys seem that are going down? As if there's any worries about it being a child protection issue then you need to bring attention to it ASAP.

13-16 mate don't know which ones the youngest cos I don't usually live at my parents house see.

as for the boys they look like emo grungers but they do look older and apparently they are from the estate a mile away from here (my parents live in a posh house in a nice area)

there's been a few of them on scooters though and I told one last week that if he goes anywhere near my car with that I will ram his helmet up his arse,havent seen him lately though [rofl]

dont think they are chavs tho most of them look very crossdresser/emo whilst some look almost normal

[MightyMasd]

Maybe your parent´s are just trying to hide their Heroin smoking, Gang banging habits from you m8,
but don´t worry, i´m pretty sure they normally just get it on like this when you´re overseas.

[steevytraunse]

Maybe your parent´s are just trying to hide their Heroin smoking, Gang banging habits from you m8,
but don´t worry, i´m pretty sure they normally just get it on like this when you´re overseas.

ROFL I did have a laugh with my mum and dad by saying I bet it was them shagging

[eskimosik]

there's been a few of them on scooters though and I told one last week that if he goes anywhere near my car with that I will ram his helmet up his arse,havent seen him lately though [rofl] I wonder why...[rofl]

I had a day of C-Card training recently (sadly I was stupid tired for it so didn't take it in as well as I should have)...from my vague recollection if one is under the legal age of consent and there is a 5+ year gap then it's a child protection issue, this is also the case if either is 12 or under. I'm not sure if that's just the laws for me to distribute condoms within the company or if it's also standard legislation...

[TriammaMade]

If youre sure theres no abuse issues going on then Id do the following.

Write a polite anonymous letter to the father of the girls. Tell him what you think is going on, and also tell him about the evidence (condoms etc) that you think you have seen. Say you are not sure that what youre saying is correct but you thought it best to let him know, just in case, and that youre sorry if youve jumped to incorrect conclusions.

That will save embarrassment for the poor chap because , he'll probably guess that its you guys who have seen/written and wont hate you for it, will instead probably appreciate it.

[WeissVine]

as for the boys they look like emo grungers

What's an emo grunger?

[Gadarett]

Sounds like its already out of your hands........ [surrender]

[steevytraunse]

What's an emo grunger?

cross between grunge and Emo,....

FFS use your Imagineation

[WeissVine]

cross between grunge and Emo,....

FFS use your Imagineation

I'm trying to but there's about 15 to 20 years between the two and they seem kind of contradictory to me. Are these guys in their 30s or something.

[HonjUopu]

I would talk to the parents if it's really bugging you [shocked]

[I9dydJrX]

Speak to the girls, tell them unless they offer free sex and drugs, you will spill the beans to their parents.


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[Dreaming]

Tell the parents together at the weekend when the old man is there!
Its the only way.

[MightyMasd]

Speak to the girls, tell them unless they offer free sex and drugs, you will spill the beans to their parents.


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^^
This man is full of win !!

[steevytraunse]

^^
This man is full of win !!

hmm now there's an Idea [beta]

[Liaptoono]

if i were u i would advise my parents to try and get all the girls together to discuss it. while the evidence might have accumulated near one girls window, that doesn't necessarily mean it was from her (i can see scheming possible there by one of the other girls) .

While there might be more satisfaction ratting the girls out, it also open the possibility of retaliation... and the wrath of 3 girls can't be good.