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Old 11-24-2007, 04:10 PM   #1
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I kinda like this girl, but I'm not sure how or if I should actually tell her. The problem is that she's like a very nice person to everyone, so I'm not sure if she thinks the same about me and I really don't wanna start an awkward situation, because it could ruin the whole thing. The most annoying part is that I know enough girls, but never actually "liked" any one of them, even when they liked me. This is the first girl I like since a long time, but I'm worried it's not the other way around. Next to that her parents are VERY strict and they might not appreciate me lolz... Anyway, what would you do?
Lol, trust me I never do these "chick" threads, but I need some feedback on this one. I just feel like I have to know what she thinks, but I also hate it to get hurt hehehe.. Recently I told a girl who liked me I didn't have special feelings for her and she got a bit depressed because of it, so now I feel like it's my turn to get some bad news to balance things out haha...
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Old 11-24-2007, 04:19 PM   #2
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First of all i´d stop saying "lolz".

Now to your problem,
If your scared of telling the girl how you feel, invite her to a club, get tippsy and then tell her.
If it doesn´t fruit, you can blaim your behaviour towards her on the alcohol.
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Old 11-24-2007, 04:23 PM   #3
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hmm... seems like a good idea hehe, but we're not planning to go out clubbing any time soon (finals coming up) Also I think girls appreciate it more when people tell the truth when they're not drunk or tipsy..
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Old 11-24-2007, 04:34 PM   #4
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i suffer (or used to suffer) from the exact same situation such as yours. got nervous and sometimes things even got awkward between us, but most of the time everything was gewd, till one day i just decided "to hell with it ima tell her how i feel" and so i did.
everything has been great since then, even greater than before i told her..but no, she's not my gf now. we both realized we could still enjoy even if we werent "us" . i dont feel sad in any way, i didnt lose anything and in turn i gained a really good and amazing friend that i can be totally honest with.
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Old 11-24-2007, 05:27 PM   #5
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thx for the advice.. I'll probably tell her today over msn since I'll never be able to do it face to face haha... There's no way back after pressing the enter button aaah... I'm a very shy person, so this will be hella difficult for me
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Old 11-24-2007, 07:36 PM   #6
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Should we like propose a Cupid Section for the boards for threads like this?
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Old 11-24-2007, 08:16 PM   #7
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LOL... there are many other threads like these so that would be a good suggestion.
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Old 11-24-2007, 08:45 PM   #8
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i was in a similar situation... never knew how to tell. met the girl twice or so. second time without her girlfriend around and didnt know how to spark it :-)


Girl ended up kissing me when i was about to leave

Going pretty well from that moment on (about three weeks ago)

maybe just do things with her and tell her then? dont know watch a movie at home, cok something or anything...
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Old 11-25-2007, 12:10 AM   #9
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cok something...
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