[Blaxastij]

No offense to the OP, but what gabriel mentioned is very true.

Shaitaan traps us with meaningless issues often.

"Its like a person gets a chance to visit the king, but he wanders aimlessly in the Castle garden admiring it and misses the chance to meet the King."

90% SF is meaningless and we're trapped in it.

No need to be harsh. Maybe the sister is new to deen and has alot of questions? Why do we forget ourselves. Not everyone is a born ALIM.

Mehmood Ghaznavi RA had a khadim named Ayaz. He was very close to Mehmood Ghaznavi. Ayaz had a room which he used to visit daily. The other ministers were jealous of his closeness to the king. They told the king that Ayaz steals money and hides it in a room. Mehmood Ghaznavi RA had complete trust in Ayaz, so he gathered everyone and told Ayaz to take us to his room. Everyone went and inside the room they saw a pair of old clothes. The king asked him what is this? he siad badshah salamat, i visit this room daily to see my clothes and remind myself of what I was....