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**daguy** · 12-09-2011, 10:42 PM

I have a cousin younger than me studying in school.He daily comes to my home as it is his grandpa's home as well.From a year or so my father is giving a lot of interest in him(it's not that he don't give me love) but he likes him a lot.He talks to him very frankly as a friend and becomes very happy also...wen all my family are having dinner my father sometimes tell me to call him to eat.It looks so annoying to me.Naturally as a son i dont like this at all....and i feel very jealous to my cousin...

pls ulema , sulaha.........need ur advice

wat to do in this situation...need ur replies..

**MadMark** · 12-09-2011, 11:03 PM

Don't worry bro, A love that a Father has for Son cannot be replaced by a nephew or cousin or anyone. Your Father still loves you very much. Since your Cousin is a guest in your house, it is good manners to take care of the guest well. Since you already live in the house, there is no need for formalities to be shown to you, that is not lack of love.

Also Hasaad(Jealousy) is a very bad thing, Instead Be happy that your Father is a good person, since he will be getting reward for being kind to others.

**MgpojuWy** · 12-09-2011, 11:20 PM

Since your Cousin is a guest in your house, it is good manners to take care of the guest well. Since you already live in the house, there is no need for formalities to be shown to you, that is not lack of love.

Very probably thats what it is...
try to give your dad a jadoo ki jhappi (have i spelled it right?) once in a while

**Arbinknit** · 12-09-2011, 11:22 PM

The other posters are right. Love between immediate family, especially parent-child, does not need to be expressed as prominently. It is inherent in every aspect of your lives.

In the meantime, what you should do is go the extra mile to serve your father (and mother, of course). For example, take care of all the household chores before you are asked. Make him tea when he is accustomed to having tea. Basically, try to anticipate his needs and wishes and fulfill them before he verbalizes them. Trust me, in this way, you will earn his most heartfelt duas.

**daguy** · 12-10-2011, 07:45 AM

Thanks a lot fr ur advices........

**Pharmaciest2007** · 12-10-2011, 01:06 PM

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The other posters are right. Love between immediate family, especially parent-child, does not need to be expressed as prominently. It is inherent in every aspect of your lives.

Love in father-child is not in that direct way, it may be showed in some slight behavour and maybe you should be sensitive or you will never feel it.

**LypeReexy** · 12-10-2011, 01:17 PM

Daddy dear is just arranging good company for you dear.

12-09-2011, 10:42 PM	#1
daguy Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 607 Senior Member	Need Fathers Love I have a cousin younger than me studying in school.He daily comes to my home as it is his grandpa's home as well.From a year or so my father is giving a lot of interest in him(it's not that he don't give me love) but he likes him a lot.He talks to him very frankly as a friend and becomes very happy also...wen all my family are having dinner my father sometimes tell me to call him to eat.It looks so annoying to me.Naturally as a son i dont like this at all....and i feel very jealous to my cousin... pls ulema , sulaha.........need ur advice wat to do in this situation...need ur replies.. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-09-2011, 11:03 PM	#2
MadMark Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 491 Senior Member	Don't worry bro, A love that a Father has for Son cannot be replaced by a nephew or cousin or anyone. Your Father still loves you very much. Since your Cousin is a guest in your house, it is good manners to take care of the guest well. Since you already live in the house, there is no need for formalities to be shown to you, that is not lack of love. Also Hasaad(Jealousy) is a very bad thing, Instead Be happy that your Father is a good person, since he will be getting reward for being kind to others. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-09-2011, 11:20 PM	#3
MgpojuWy Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 445 Senior Member	Since your Cousin is a guest in your house, it is good manners to take care of the guest well. Since you already live in the house, there is no need for formalities to be shown to you, that is not lack of love. Very probably thats what it is... try to give your dad a jadoo ki jhappi (have i spelled it right?) once in a while Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-09-2011, 11:22 PM	#4
Arbinknit Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 458 Senior Member	The other posters are right. Love between immediate family, especially parent-child, does not need to be expressed as prominently. It is inherent in every aspect of your lives. In the meantime, what you should do is go the extra mile to serve your father (and mother, of course). For example, take care of all the household chores before you are asked. Make him tea when he is accustomed to having tea. Basically, try to anticipate his needs and wishes and fulfill them before he verbalizes them. Trust me, in this way, you will earn his most heartfelt duas. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-10-2011, 07:45 AM	#5
daguy Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 607 Senior Member	Thanks a lot fr ur advices........ Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-10-2011, 01:06 PM	#6
Pharmaciest2007 Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 407 Senior Member	[QUOTE=NNoor;702083] The other posters are right. Love between immediate family, especially parent-child, does not need to be expressed as prominently. It is inherent in every aspect of your lives. Love in father-child is not in that direct way, it may be showed in some slight behavour and maybe you should be sensitive or you will never feel it. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-10-2011, 01:17 PM	#7
LypeReexy Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 562 Senior Member	Daddy dear is just arranging good company for you dear. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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