[TheBestCheapestOEM]

Salaam

I would like to ask how converts find their spouses?
Do they find it difficult to be accepted by muslim families?

Wasalaam

[18holesin]

Very good question sister. It depends. In our family we have some converts. Some families accept them and others dont due to cultural reasons. Converts should be very careful about going about finding a spouse. If you tell us where you are based we can recommend a way but please please be very careful as I'm talking from many years of experience.

[chuecaloversvv]

In the same way as born muslims find their spouses.

Some muslim families accept them, some don't.

It is a good idea to marry a strong muslim.

[TheBestCheapestOEM]

Very good question sister. It depends. In our family we have some converts. Some families accept them and others dont due to cultural reasons. Converts should be very careful about going about finding a spouse. If you tell us where you are based we can recommend a way but please please be very careful as I'm talking from many years of experience.

JazakAllahu khair for the response.
I am based in the London area

[18holesin]

In the london area I can recommend maulana abdul mateen of quwwatul islam masjid, forest gate (east london) who has arranged marriages for converts or maybe colonal hardstone will have more information so I will ask him to respond to this thread. Please be careful before taking any major steps. I urge extreme caution.

[TheBestCheapestOEM]

In the london area I can recommend maulana abdul mateen of quwwatul islam masjid, forest gate (east london) who has arranged marriages for converts or maybe colonal hardstone will have more information so I will ask him to respond to this thread. Please be careful before taking any major steps. I urge extreme caution.

Asalaamu alaikum london786,
JazakaAllahu khair for the reply and advice. That would be great if you can get more information.
Wasalaam

[delnisfernan]

You need to be involved in relegious organisation where other sisters mingle. This way you can ask them to find someone suitable. Also find a seassoned scholar and seek their guidance.
There are many ways 1. contacts via friends/ organisation 2. internet based matromonial services (take caution) 3. Muslim Marriage event.
I know people who have got married using these channel. Do not be fool by people . Marriage is life changing event so one must apply due dilligent. Do not rush into marriage but do not delay either. so use your judgement and seek guidance from someone responsible for objectivity.
I would request you read a lot of darood and increase in your nawafil ibadah and pray to grant you a pious husbend.
Allahualam