Going to mixed weddings Haram, Why? - DiscussWorldIssues - Socio-Economic Religion and Political Uncensored Debate

**Dweplyododo** · 10-06-2011, 12:24 AM

Why is it Haram?

**myhackingtosh_ws** · 10-06-2011, 12:28 AM

Why is it Haram?

maulana, You yourself knows why it is haram. then why are asking the question

**Dweplyododo** · 10-06-2011, 12:34 AM

That's why i preferred to remain anonymous

Need to make a new account.

**Petwrenny** · 10-06-2011, 12:36 AM

That's why i preferred to remain anonymous

Need to make a new account.

Hazrat, wasn't it you that said to Bro Abulayl:

Don't ask questions you ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER OF.

**inchaaruutaa** · 10-06-2011, 12:36 AM

That's why i preferred to remain anonymous

Need to make a new account.

Bismillah
I think it is against forum rules for a person to create two accounts. Allahu alam

**Dweplyododo** · 10-06-2011, 12:53 AM

Hazrat, wasn't it you that said to Bro Abulayl:

This is called creating a Muqaddama for something

**ONLINEPHARMACYCHEAPILLS** · 10-06-2011, 01:07 AM

Forget about who asked the question, anyone answer it.i think intermingling of sex would be the main reason...

**Dweplyododo** · 10-06-2011, 01:23 AM

Seems like everyone is afraid to answer

My simple question is based on mixed weddings being haram. I want to ask, If mixed weddings are haram because of intermingling of genders, then why isn't it haram to go to restaurants where intermingling of genders also happen?

**rbVmVlQ2** · 10-06-2011, 01:23 AM

-------->>>> http://www.sunniforum.com/forum/show...Mendhi-AskImam

**TornadoPD** · 10-06-2011, 01:24 AM

Yes the interminglnig of sexes is haraam. The thing you are trying to avoid with marriage is Zina. However the intermingling of the sexes puts Zina into the marriage.

**Pcodaygs** · 10-06-2011, 01:26 AM

no ones scared to answer, everyone ubderstands why going to mixed weddibgs is haraam!

**brilkyPlayday** · 10-06-2011, 01:28 AM

Seems like everyone is afraid to answer

My simple question is based on mixed weddings being haram. I want to ask, If mixed weddings are haram because of intermingling of genders, then why isn't it haram to go to restaurants where intermingling of genders also happen?

It's an obvious answer, nothing to be afraid about answering .Both is not permissible where intermingling and fitnah is present .

A sensible person who has an ounce of taqwa would think twice about taking part or going to such places....... If you see or know people doing that well maybe they need to be educated more and are ignorant about it .

**Dweplyododo** · 10-06-2011, 01:30 AM

Well we see 'Ulama going to MIXED restaurants all the time.

**TornadoPD** · 10-06-2011, 01:31 AM

Seems like everyone is afraid to answer

My simple question is based on mixed weddings being haram. I want to ask, If mixed weddings are haram because of intermingling of genders, then why isn't it haram to go to restaurants where intermingling of genders also happen?

Moulana Taliban

that is a very good question. In fact this can all be avoided if women were to stay inside their homes and be dutiful to their husbands.

**Pcodaygs** · 10-06-2011, 01:35 AM

Well we see 'Ulama going to MIXED restaurants all the time.

ml taliban whats the point? if one knows something is haraam he/she must not do it even if the whole worlds ulama (including ml taliban) is doing it. its very simple.

**brilkyPlayday** · 10-06-2011, 01:44 AM

ml taliban whats the point? if one knows something is haraam he/she must not do it even if the whole worlds ulama (including ml taliban) is doing it. its very simple.

Exactly! we should access ourselves are we doing it ? are we taking part in such ? if not

when we see others ( Ulema or non ) we should make dua for them and always have a good thought about them. Whats that saying again we make ... 70 excuses for our Muslims brother/ sister if we see or hear them doing a wrong action. We shouldn't be quick to judge others.

**Dweplyododo** · 10-06-2011, 01:58 AM

So when 'Ulama go for site seeing and tourism it becomes Hujjah and Halal. But when they go to restaurants it doesn't become halal.

Why?!?!?!

**TornadoPD** · 10-06-2011, 02:01 AM

So when 'Ulama go for site seeing and tourism it becomes Hujjah and Halal. But when they go to restaurants it doesn't become halal.

Why?!?!?!

Moulana Taliban the Ulama who fall under this category are the Ulama-e-Soo. They are put in position by the west. They have no taqwa and their hearts are filled to the brim with the desire for this world.

**brilkyPlayday** · 10-06-2011, 02:06 AM

So when 'Ulama go for site seeing and tourism it becomes Hujjah and Halal. But when they go to restaurants it doesn't become halal.

Why?!?!?!

Ulemah or non ulemah go for sightseeing in a non fitnah place, is that haram? You are more knowledgeable to answer

Ulemah or non ulemah go to a restaurant that have separate facilities for families, or they go in just to buy food . Or they go at a time where they are not many people around or fitnahs present... is that haram ? You are more knowledgeable to answer

The point is intermingling and fitnah should be avoided, regardless of if the person is Ulemah or non ulemah.

**jamemeveRhype** · 10-06-2011, 02:17 AM

So when 'Ulama go for site seeing and tourism it becomes Hujjah and Halal. But when they go to restaurants it doesn't become halal.

Why?!?!?!

ASAK,

Whats wrong in going if one can controll their nafs and gaze?

10-06-2011, 12:24 AM	#1
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myhackingtosh_ws Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 493 Senior Member	Why is it Haram? maulana, You yourself knows why it is haram. then why are asking the question Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-06-2011, 12:36 AM	#4
Petwrenny Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 400 Senior Member	That's why i preferred to remain anonymous Need to make a new account. Hazrat, wasn't it you that said to Bro Abulayl: Don't ask questions you ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER OF. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-06-2011, 12:53 AM	#6
Dweplyododo Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 539 Senior Member	Hazrat, wasn't it you that said to Bro Abulayl: This is called creating a Muqaddama for something Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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ONLINEPHARMACYCHEAPILLS Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 478 Senior Member	Forget about who asked the question, anyone answer it.i think intermingling of sex would be the main reason... Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-06-2011, 01:23 AM	#8
Dweplyododo Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 539 Senior Member	Seems like everyone is afraid to answer My simple question is based on mixed weddings being haram. I want to ask, If mixed weddings are haram because of intermingling of genders, then why isn't it haram to go to restaurants where intermingling of genders also happen? Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-06-2011, 01:24 AM	#10
TornadoPD Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 414 Senior Member	Yes the interminglnig of sexes is haraam. The thing you are trying to avoid with marriage is Zina. However the intermingling of the sexes puts Zina into the marriage. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-06-2011, 01:26 AM	#11
Pcodaygs Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 414 Senior Member	no ones scared to answer, everyone ubderstands why going to mixed weddibgs is haraam! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-06-2011, 01:28 AM	#12
brilkyPlayday Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 444 Senior Member	Seems like everyone is afraid to answer My simple question is based on mixed weddings being haram. I want to ask, If mixed weddings are haram because of intermingling of genders, then why isn't it haram to go to restaurants where intermingling of genders also happen? It's an obvious answer, nothing to be afraid about answering .Both is not permissible where intermingling and fitnah is present . A sensible person who has an ounce of taqwa would think twice about taking part or going to such places....... If you see or know people doing that well maybe they need to be educated more and are ignorant about it . Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-06-2011, 01:30 AM	#13
Dweplyododo Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 539 Senior Member	Well we see 'Ulama going to MIXED restaurants all the time. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-06-2011, 01:31 AM	#14
TornadoPD Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 414 Senior Member	Seems like everyone is afraid to answer My simple question is based on mixed weddings being haram. I want to ask, If mixed weddings are haram because of intermingling of genders, then why isn't it haram to go to restaurants where intermingling of genders also happen? Moulana Taliban that is a very good question. In fact this can all be avoided if women were to stay inside their homes and be dutiful to their husbands. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-06-2011, 01:35 AM	#15
Pcodaygs Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 414 Senior Member	Well we see 'Ulama going to MIXED restaurants all the time. ml taliban whats the point? if one knows something is haraam he/she must not do it even if the whole worlds ulama (including ml taliban) is doing it. its very simple. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-06-2011, 01:44 AM	#16
brilkyPlayday Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 444 Senior Member	ml taliban whats the point? if one knows something is haraam he/she must not do it even if the whole worlds ulama (including ml taliban) is doing it. its very simple. Exactly! we should access ourselves are we doing it ? are we taking part in such ? if not when we see others ( Ulema or non ) we should make dua for them and always have a good thought about them. Whats that saying again we make ... 70 excuses for our Muslims brother/ sister if we see or hear them doing a wrong action. We shouldn't be quick to judge others. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-06-2011, 01:58 AM	#17
Dweplyododo Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 539 Senior Member	So when 'Ulama go for site seeing and tourism it becomes Hujjah and Halal. But when they go to restaurants it doesn't become halal. Why?!?!?! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-06-2011, 02:01 AM	#18
TornadoPD Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 414 Senior Member	So when 'Ulama go for site seeing and tourism it becomes Hujjah and Halal. But when they go to restaurants it doesn't become halal. Why?!?!?! Moulana Taliban the Ulama who fall under this category are the Ulama-e-Soo. They are put in position by the west. They have no taqwa and their hearts are filled to the brim with the desire for this world. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-06-2011, 02:06 AM	#19
brilkyPlayday Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 444 Senior Member	So when 'Ulama go for site seeing and tourism it becomes Hujjah and Halal. But when they go to restaurants it doesn't become halal. Why?!?!?! Ulemah or non ulemah go for sightseeing in a non fitnah place, is that haram? You are more knowledgeable to answer Ulemah or non ulemah go to a restaurant that have separate facilities for families, or they go in just to buy food . Or they go at a time where they are not many people around or fitnahs present... is that haram ? You are more knowledgeable to answer The point is intermingling and fitnah should be avoided, regardless of if the person is Ulemah or non ulemah. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-06-2011, 02:17 AM	#20
jamemeveRhype Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 415 Senior Member	So when 'Ulama go for site seeing and tourism it becomes Hujjah and Halal. But when they go to restaurants it doesn't become halal. Why?!?!?! ASAK, Whats wrong in going if one can controll their nafs and gaze? Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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