Why can't I get married??? - DiscussWorldIssues - Socio-Economic Religion and Political Uncensored Debate

Issue 1: Is this an issue in the Muslim Ummah? Yes
Issue 2: Does &quot;Islam&quot; give Muslimah a right to marry a Muslim of her choice? Yes
Issue 3: Is this the Muslimah doing anything Islamically or ethically wrong by choosing a Muslim of her choice, outside of her culture ? No
Issue 4: Should we side with and agree with the family when they are clearly in the wrong ? No

**GtmFeqJJ** · 09-07-2011, 09:18 PM

Again in an ideal world that would be the case. But as sad as it seems we don't live in an ideal world. My cousin wanted to marry an Arab guy but both families refused to acknowledge the marriage, so there's nothing left but to decide between family or guy/girl. Any reasonable person would go for the family even if they family is in the wrong.

Bismillah
I personally feel it also goes with compatibility too and if one wants to choose based on that, there is nothing wrong in it without having hatred for other cultures in the heart. Allahu alam

09-07-2011, 09:18 PM	#11
GtmFeqJJ Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 508 Senior Member	Again in an ideal world that would be the case. But as sad as it seems we don't live in an ideal world. My cousin wanted to marry an Arab guy but both families refused to acknowledge the marriage, so there's nothing left but to decide between family or guy/girl. Any reasonable person would go for the family even if they family is in the wrong. Bismillah I personally feel it also goes with compatibility too and if one wants to choose based on that, there is nothing wrong in it without having hatred for other cultures in the heart. Allahu alam Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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