[carreraboyracer]

Assalamu Alaykuma

الايكوما السلام

I was born with ambigious genital and raised as a boy. My breasts began to grow at about 14 and after diagnosis I am found should be a girl with XX chromosome and the female organs inside the body. Upon the recommendation and advice of doctors and Ulama, my parents decided to let me have the gender correction surgery to correct my gender to the one which the Allah originally intends me to be. I had the surgery at 17.

I have counselling both before and after the surgery. However, nearly one year after the surgery, I am not adapted to and comfortable with the new gender role and life.

I am somewhat regret of having the surgery and always think that whether I must have the surgery or not and whether it was correct decision of having the surgery. Please help me.

How can I better adapt to the change?

كيف يمكن أنا أفضل على التكيف مع التغيير؟

[milfovoxapl]

As-Salamu ´alaykum,

Indeed it must be a difficult transition for you. Although I am in no position to advice you on how to adapt, I remind you to be patient and put your trust and faith in Allah subhanahu wa ta´ala. No matter how it feels right now, remember that the life in this Dunya is temporary. Try to let your relationship with Allah define you, not your gender. I apologize if I am not of any help. But it saddens me to see that people ignore these threads. May Allah admit you, and us, to the Garden that He has prepared for the Believers.

Wa'Llahu a'lam

[Lebybynctisee]

I welcome you to the forum and hope you get a knowledgeable answer here,

Unfortunately, I have no inkling on how you should adapt but all I can say is I am praying for you,

[Qdcqxffs]

Think about the decision very well before doing anything.
You should get some literature on this topic, to see what other people have experienced.
That might help you to orientate.

I'll pray for you,