[qilmuz6v]

You should be OK, so don't worry so much.

Either she will be there on vacation, or if not possible, then you will be back next time, long distance romances are never easy but can be handled.
She hasn't asked for money up to the is point so I think she is for real, and you seem to think she is ok and thats what counts, there are real ladys here as well as the entertainment venue kind. I have one of the best in the world, but there should be more than one in a country this large.
There might come a time when she gets up against it and will need a little cash, but don't let it put you off, if you can afford it, send it if it sounds legit, if you have doubts or do not have it, then don't.
But others than just me have found good women here so why not you too.
There is going to be naysayers but just take it with a grain of salt until such time as she makes it clear that she is not what you think she is, then will be the time to make different arrangements and cast her off.
I do not think you were hurt a bit in the money for the dinner and drinks, didn't hurt you one bit to pay for the party and dinner for your future inlaws. In fact I think that was very nice of you and they do too.