[mr.videomen]

well he has phoned several times this morning which i have refused to answer, and then sent a few text messages swearing on his life he has never been on that site before. so we got into a bit of a text argument.

him; i have never been on that site before i swear on my life but my word means nothing to you. I thought we had agreed to put all this behind us.

him; answer your phone, dont ignore me i havent been on that site ever

me; i dont want to talk to you i am too upset moreso now you have just lied to me again, that was your email address and password for the account, the photo is recent was it taken at her house? it looks as though you joined up in march, well at least i now know you care as little for that plastic faced sl*g as you do for me. I dont want to talk to you, i have emailled you the page as prooof, use today to think about what it is you really want , i think a little therapy for you wouldnt go amisss, i think you are a sex addict for not just the act but also the attention, the danger and the lying and i do not deserve for you to keep treating me this way. you are obviously looking for something that isnt me, go away and have a good think.

him: someone is fu**ing with us, cant you see that? just like when she set up a fake profile for you on that other dating site. The password is the same one to turn my laptop on so she knew that, the photo was taken when I first arrived at my new job and needed an id photo. it was on my laptop she must have got it from there

me: in march she thought she had you all to yourself as i didnt know so she would have no need to set up a fake profile for you from YOUR laptop with YOUR email and password. THere are also messages sent and recieved on the account.

him: Well you dont trust me andyou never will, you cant put it behind you can you. I have never been on that site. Anyway what were YOU doing on a dating site?

me: I saw an advert on tv and my intuition told me to have a look, you and i both know i am no cheat so dont even try that one

him: im am not trying anything, i am getting sick of this, i am no sex addict and i am sick of having to explain myself all the time. I thought we had put all this behind us but it keeps popping up. I guess you dont want me to come home this weekend then?





He is due to come home saturday night til sunday dinner, as he does about every two weeks. I have not replied and have heard no more from him, he is obviously waiting for me to call his bluff which I wont.