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**boiffrona** · 07-30-2009, 04:34 PM

Before I was married and cheated on I abided by the unwritten 'Code of Silence'. Everyone who knew me, knew I could be trusted with a secret. Cousins, colleagues and acquaintances would reveal their infidelity to me. I would keep my mouth shut.

Guess what that got me? Yeah, the same "code" applied equally to me. I, and they, would become accomplices.

Today I have a very different outlook on life. If I reasonable doubt and suspicions, or proof I tell the spouse. Only one of them was thankful and I lost a few 'friends'.

I'm not sorry for the losses. Remember the proverb: "Birds of a feather f*ck together." My life is better off FAR from people like this. I don't need them in my life. If a man or woman cheats on his closest ally in life, it is only a matter of time and opportunity before they screw you too.

Just my 2c.
R

EDIT: Oh, and these were people who were being cheated on. Some of them chose to be blind and "stuck together" only to discover the truth some time later.

07-30-2009, 04:34 PM	#4
boiffrona Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 606 Senior Member	Before I was married and cheated on I abided by the unwritten 'Code of Silence'. Everyone who knew me, knew I could be trusted with a secret. Cousins, colleagues and acquaintances would reveal their infidelity to me. I would keep my mouth shut. Guess what that got me? Yeah, the same "code" applied equally to me. I, and they, would become accomplices. Today I have a very different outlook on life. If I reasonable doubt and suspicions, or proof I tell the spouse. Only one of them was thankful and I lost a few 'friends'. I'm not sorry for the losses. Remember the proverb: "Birds of a feather fck together." My life is better off FAR from people like this. I don't need them in my life. If a man or woman cheats on his closest ally in life, it is only a matter of time and opportunity before they screw you too. Just my 2c. R EDIT: Oh, and these were people who were* being cheated on. Some of them chose to be blind and "stuck together" only to discover the truth some time later.
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