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**bjacogaerllyo** · 08-27-2009, 02:32 AM

My best friend sensed that my H was cheating on me, and she didn't tell me. Something that she regrets to this day. My neighbors saw my H and my neighbor together, and I wish they had told me.

It seems that I was the last to know. If I had circumstantial proof, then I would ask the possible 'cheater' and let them know that if there was something up, then either they tell my friend, or I will. I would risk my friendship to tell my friend the truth.

I remember one of my neighbors coming to me about 4 years before my H's affair and she said, "You know, I would be upset if I were you that (my H) was at (wh0re)'s house almost everyday when he walks the dog. Doesn't that bother you?" I remember thinking, nope. They are friends and that's OK. I trust him. He would never cheat on me. Boy was I an idiot. Even though they weren't cheating back then, they ended up doing it 4 years later. stupid me.

08-27-2009, 02:32 AM	#7
bjacogaerllyo Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 472 Senior Member	My best friend sensed that my H was cheating on me, and she didn't tell me. Something that she regrets to this day. My neighbors saw my H and my neighbor together, and I wish they had told me. It seems that I was the last to know. If I had circumstantial proof, then I would ask the possible 'cheater' and let them know that if there was something up, then either they tell my friend, or I will. I would risk my friendship to tell my friend the truth. I remember one of my neighbors coming to me about 4 years before my H's affair and she said, "You know, I would be upset if I were you that (my H) was at (wh0re)'s house almost everyday when he walks the dog. Doesn't that bother you?" I remember thinking, nope. They are friends and that's OK. I trust him. He would never cheat on me. Boy was I an idiot. Even though they weren't cheating back then, they ended up doing it 4 years later. stupid me.
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